"விழுந்தால் விதையாக விழுவேன்." Epic.
 I will not be a person I don’t want to be. I will not be petty, jealous, or envious, or give in to any other of those lazy emotions. I will not gossip or speak badly of others, no matter who I am with or what environment I am in. I will not be negative when it is easier to be positive. I will not hurt others when it is possible to help. I will know the temptations, situations and environments in life that I must avoid, and I will, in fact, avoid them, even if it means loosening relationships with others who “live” in those environments.
Yesterday I have learned the great lesson through the person whom I know well.

Here I remember the story from the three monkeys of Gandhi were symbols of Gandhi's search for truth. The three monkeys are seen in three postures. One is closing its mouth, another one its ears and the third one its eyes.

Dont believe others what they are saying about your friends, relatives and others . If they are true to you just believe them and ignore those peoples who are saying about others.

  • Now is the accepted time, not tomorrow, not some more convenient season. It is today that our best work can be done and not some future day or future year. It is today that we fit ourselves for the greater usefulness of tomorrow. Today is the seed time, now are the hours of work, and tomorrow comes the harvest and the playtime.
  • The main thing is the YOU beneath the clothes and skin--the ability to do, the will to conquer, the determination to understand and know this great, wonderful, curious world. 
  • Children learn more from what you are than what you teach
  • The most important thing to remember is this: To be ready at any moment to give up what you are for what you might become. -->W.E.B. Du Bois
if you want your life to change... your choices must change and today is the best day of your life to begin.
ONE.
Give people more than they expect and do it cheerfully.

TWO.

Marry a man/woman you love to talk to. As you get older, their conversational skills will be as important as any other.

THREE.

Don't believe all you hear, spend all you have or sleep all you want.

FOUR.

When you say, 'I love you,' mean it.

FIVE..

When you say, 'I'm sorry,' look the person in the eye..

SIX.

Be engaged at least six months before you get married.

SEVEN.

Believe in love at first sight.

EIGHT.

Never laugh at anyone's dreams.
People who don't have dreams don't have much.

NINE....

Love deeply and passionately.
You might get hurt but it's the only way to live life completely.

TEN..

In disagreements, fight fairly. No name calling.

ELEVEN.

Don't judge people by their relatives.

TWELVE.

Talk slowly but think quickly.

THIRTEEN.

When someone asks you a question you don't want to answer, smile and ask, 'Why do you want to know?'

FOURTEEN.

Remember that great love and great achievements involve great risk.

FIFTEEN.

Say 'bless you' when you hear someone sneeze.

SIXTEEN.

When you lose, don't lose the lesson.

SEVENTEEN.

Remember the three R's: Respect for self; Respect for others; and Responsibility for all your actions.

EIGHTEEN.

Don't let a little dispute injure a great friendship.

NINETEEN.

When you realize you've made a mistake, take immediate steps to correct it.

TWENTY.

Smile when picking up the phone. The caller will hear it in your voice.
My friend used to tell me that the first time you fall in love, it changes your life forever, and no matter how hard you try, the feeling never goes away.. yeah its true.

I wish to get my first love but I dont know what's in her mind.
To a happy person, the formula for happiness is quite simple. Regardless of what happened early this morning, last week, or last year—or what may happen later this evening, tomorrow, or three years from now—now is where happiness lies.” ~Richard Carlson

IT IS A CROW


An 80 year old man was sitting on the sofa in his house along with his 45 years old highly educated son. Suddenly a crow perched on their window. The Father asked his Son, “What is this?” The Son replied “It is a crow”. After a few minutes, the Father asked his Son the 2nd time, “What is this?” The Son said “Father, I have just now told you “It’s a crow”.

After a little while, the old Father again asked his Son the 3rd time, What is this?” At this time some ex-pression of irritation was felt in the Son’s tone when he said to his Father with a rebuff. “It’s a crow, a crow”.A little after, the Father again asked his Son t he 4th time, “What is this?”

This time the Son shouted at his Father, “Why do you keep asking me the same question again and again, although I have told you so many times ‘IT IS A CROW’. Are you not able to understand this?”

A little later the Father went to his room and came back with an old tattered diary, which he had maintained since his Son was born. On opening a page, he asked his Son to read that page. When the son read it, the following words were written in the diary :-

“Today my little son aged three was sitting with me on the sofa, when a crow was sitting on the window. My Son asked me 23 times what it was, and I replied to him all 23 times that it was a Crow. I hugged him lovingly each time he asked me the same question again and again for 23 times. I did not at all feel irritated I rather felt affection for my innocent child”.

While the little child asked him 23 times “What is this”, the Father had felt no irritation in replying to the same question all 23 times and when today the Father asked his Son the same question just 4 times, the Son felt irritated and annoyed.


So..

If your parents attain old age, do not repulse them or look at them as a burden, but speak to them a gracious word, be cool, obedient, humble and kind to them. Be considerate to your parents.From today say this aloud, “I want to see my parents happy forever. They have cared for me ever since I was a little child. They have always showered their selfless love on me.

They crossed all mountains and valleys without seeing the storm and heat to make me a person presentable in the society today”. Say a prayer to God, “I will serve my old parents in the BEST way. I will say all good and kind words to my dear parents, no matter how they behave.

13 January 2013

After a long time I saw my college mates in the same place (under the same tree n tower where we have enjoyed in the college days) and had a good time with them.


I am so happy for my friend Rajesh who is going to get married and god bless them. He was totally changed, continuously telling about her(In the 4 hours he spoke about her nearly 3 hours) and his love feelings. 

Finally he said his girl studied in RMD and i am laughing inside and he gave more tips how to take your fiancee out and etc... Thanks for your tips machi. 

May be this quote is true now ->> There is always some madness in love. But there is also always some reason in madness. But I felt this madness already with her..

Happy Bhogi!!!

“Promise yourself to be so strong that nothing can disturb your peace of mind. Look at the sunny side of everything & make your optimism come true. Think only of the best, work only for the best & expect only the best. Forget the mistakes of the past & press on to the greater achievements of the future. Give so much time to the improvement of yourself that you have no time to criticize others. Live in the faith that the whole world is on your side as long as you are true to the best that is in you.” ~Christian D. Larson
உண்மையாய் இருப்பதுதான் சுயபலம். அப்போது பேச்சும் செயலும் மிக மிகச் சுதந்திரமாக இருக்கும். அந்தச் சுதந்திரம் எவரையும் காயப்படுத்தாது இருக்கும்.

L.A.V.A.N.Y.A

Today my cute, little, darling LAKSHMI DEVI (Lalu) is taking part in a Guinness World Record attempt for largest ever Bharatanatyam performance with 2000 dancers in Karur.

Today’s performance is to break the earlier World Records like the one attempted at the Tanjore Big Temple in 2010 where 1000 dancers participated. 

Being part of a Guinness World Record Attempt in itself is a great experience. Am happy for all the participants and especially for my Lavanya. Am really hoping they get the record. It would be well deserved for all the hard work they had put in.

Fear less, hope more, eat less, chew more, whine less, breathe more, talk less, say more, hate less, love more, and good things will be yours.

----> Swedish Proverb.

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