Goal 1

Started learning GA, I am damn sure and I am gonna expert in this within a month > 28 Jan 2015.

GaMe...

Watched the wonderful movie 42 and inspired. It's one of my hit list.

Some of the dialogues below, which I have loved it. 

I didn't come to play I came to kill

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you are the one

only you

you can get out there and hit.

you can get on base and score.

you can win this game for us

we need you.

everybody needs u

you're medicine, Jack

I m gonna need a new bat.

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Just get him out

Game's too important

The competitor to be feared is one who never bothers about you at all, but goes on making his own business better all the time. 

Here I am not in a competition with any one else. I run my own race. Even I don't wanna play the game to be better than anyone else around me in any way or shape.. I just aim to improve to become the better person in my life. I am free.

Everything happens for a reason and a purpose, and it serves us.

Po...

Action..

I am always committed to my words, today I have missed that one due to busy work. still I unable to sleep and thinking to finish that task before that person arrive to office. 

I hope I will do that before he will reach and this is one of the biggest mistake of mine and experience for me.

I am responsible. 

சில்லென ஒரு மழை துளி
என்னை நனைக்குதே பெண்ணே
சிறகுகள் யார் கொடுத்தது
நெஞ்சம் பறக்குதே முன்னே
உன் விழிகளிலே ஹோ நான் வாழ்கிறேன் பெண்ணே
உன் கனவுகளாய் நான் மாறினேன் பெண்ணே

அட கருப்பட்டியே என் சீனி கெழங்கே
சிரிச்சி கவுத்தாத
என் கண்ணு குட்டியே கம்மாக் கரையில் நீ
கப்பல் ஒட்டாதே
கண்ணால பாக்காம கண்ணாலம் பண்ணலாமா
கைபோட்டு போலாமா

கொஞ்சம் பார்த்துவிடு கொஞ்சம் பேசிவிடு
என்று என் விழிகள் அய்யய்யோ என்கிறது
கோடை கால மழை வந்து போன பின்னும்
சாலை ஓர மரம் தன்னாலே நீர் சொட்ட
என்னை தாக்கும் புயலே
இரவோடு காயும் வெயிலே
ஹோ ..ஹே .. உன்னாலே ..
நூலில்லா காத்தாடி ஆனேனே
அடி பெண்ணே அடி பெண்ணே காத்திருந்தால்
உன் பாதம் செல்வேனே

உன் விழிகளிலே ஹோ நான் வாழ்கிறேன் பெண்ணே
உன் கனவுகளாய் நான் மாறினேன் பெண்ணே

சில்லென ஒரு மழை துளி
என்னை நனைக்குதே பெண்ணே
சிறகுகள் யார் கொடுத்தது
நெஞ்சம் பறக்குதே முன்னே

காதல் வந்தவுடன் காய்ச்சல் வந்ததடி
மீண்டு நான் பிழைக்க முத்தங்கள் தருவாயா
கோபங்கொள்கையிலும் கிறங்க வைக்குதடி
மீண்டும் ஒருமுறை நீ கோபத்தில் பார்ப்பாயா
ஆளை கொள்ளும் அழகே நிழல் கூட அழகின் கதவே

ஒரு நாளும் குறையாத
புது போதை கண்ணோரம் தந்தாயே
அணைத்தாலும் அணையாத ஒரு தீயாய்
நெஞ்சோரம் வந்தாயே
அடி இடம் வலமாய் 
நான் ஆடினேன் பெண்ணே
இடி மழையாய் எனைத் தாக்கினாய் முன்னே 

"Never leave the site of a goal without first taking some form of positive action towards its attainment. Right now, take a moment to define the first steps you must take to achieve some goal. What can you do today to move forward?"

“The best way to predict your future is to create it.” —Peter F. Drucker

"What if you adopted the belief that there are no bad experiences? Isn't it true that no matter what you go through in life—whether it's difficult or easy, painful or pleasurable—every experience provides something of value if you look for it?"

First I have to fix my laptop within Wednesday.. Hopefully back to my blog by next week, to keep writing the positive thing which I am going to see in my daily life.  As well as my favourite tracks...

Gotta a time to listen this track last few days back... addicted to this track... just now downloaded and it will be in my playlist..

After a long time.. back to my blog. Just now watched the movie KATHTHI... 

I am addicted to her voice at all time... and how sweet and cute she is..

My advance wishes to her... god bless you.

Best Advice Ever I Heard in My Life...

Always stay in the discomfort zone... Go into the situations not knowing.. Be there.. So that you will become an extra ordinary than others.. 

Without laptop for 10 days.. OMG :(  Back to my blog.... 

This birthday was very special for me... Went to thirupathi and spent the whole day there and got good darshan of Mr and Mrs Venky :) 

Traveled with one old lady like my grand mom and got her blessing especially for my marriage.. She said like... I thought u prayed well especially for your marriage and she said finally you will get marriage soon bcas u came with me.. so it will happen soon :) 

Back to office and got surprise with Bday cakes and awesome moments... Thanks to my team :) 

Last but not least... Hopefully going to get marry soon... 

:) :) 

Seeing different peoples, hearing different experiences. But at the end everybody needs 2 things

1. Love

2. Money

Never expect anything in any relationship at any costs because it won't hurt you. Even you are a father to your son.

- My uncle sayings.

I love to get engage with my darling.. where are you dear??????????????????

She was bitch :)

She was bitch...

Understand?

I am sorry, really...

She used you..

Then gave you a BPL and used him.

And she dumped you as well..

She was a waste of time then and she is a waste of time now.

Four years ago we cancelled this trip because of her..

Hey..

What's a BPL...

Bum Pe Laat... 

ha ha.. it's a true story... 

Work Hard, Party Harder
Keep Your Expectations Low From Others
Be Kind..

Believe

There is no secret ingredient. To make something special you just have to believe it's special. 

I have the power to say, this is NOT how my STORY will END.

Belated wishes to my best friend.. First time I missed to wish her.. My prayers for her always keep smiling baby..

Kamal Hassan

Motivational...

Muzhumathi Avalathu Mukhamaakum

HAPPY...................

Today I am so much happy due to my lovely kid "TEJASWINI"... After I reached home and refreshed... she called me Achha, Achaa. Usually she always use to call me with my name Latcha(she say Achha)... I sat and simply she told in her baby words so many things while she is walking in the room ... I am simply listening her words but I can't understand what she is telling.. Its went upto 15 minutes.. My mom told to me I never saw her like this da...

Really if u have a kid in your home... nothing matter compare to the kid.. 

To My Love...

I take some pride in... representing myself exactly how I would like to have my son remember me to his kids.

மகிழ்ச்சி என்பது கார், பங்களா, காசு, பணத்தில் இல்லை. நன்றாக உண்டு நன்றாக தூங்க முடிகிறதா என்பதுதான் மிக முக்கியம். உண்மையிலேயே உங்களைப் பற்றி அக்கறைப்படுகிற, அன்பு காட்டுகிற மக்கள் இருக்கிறார்களா என்பதுதான் முக்கியம்.

- B.K

Lovely music, voice and lyrics.. addicted..

One More...

I am so happy to saw the new born baby yesterday.. lovely and happy for my cousin, my best friend and my sister. One more new boy came to my big family. God Bless.

After a long time... went for a walk in the morning.  Its an amazing feel today. Started a day with fresh air and energy. 

Searching My One Thing

What's the F**king ONE thing you can do this week such that by doing it everything else would be easier or unnecessary?

1

One thing. Just one thing. You stick to that and everything else don't meant sh*t.

When you repeat a mistake, it is not a mistake anymore: it's a decision.

Do not seek to be loved at any price, because LOVE has no price.

If everybody loves you, something is wrong. Find at least one enemy to keep you alert.

Rise above the pain!

Rise above the pain! You are bigger than your circumstances or your life situation. Your life is not defined by your relationship status, your current job, your bank account, or anything that you have or have not done in the past. Don't listen to any person or automatic negative thoughts that may have conditioned you to think of yourself or your life as a failure.

Don’t ever choose a permanent solution for a temporary problem. You have people who need you and who are counting on you. There is always another day and another way. Rise above the pain, and know that deep inside of you there is another person waiting to break through. You have the ability to rebuild, regroup, recover, and revive!! Breathe life into your dream. Know that you can live a meaningful and purposeful life. You are an unrepeatable miracle, and your dream can live... despite what you feel and inspite of what you're going through right now! You have something special...you have GREATNESS within you!
― Les Brown

1. Dont say you have no time.
2. Be active and enthusiastic.
3. Dont decide, without trying.
4. You Can Make it. - periyar dasan

My prayers for my uncle.. Get well soon. 

நிச்சயமா. அவரது சக்ஸஸ் ஸ்டோரியே எனக்கு பெரிய இன்ஸ்பிரேஷன். மதுரையில் ரெஜிஸ்டர்ட் மெடிக்கல் பிராக்டீஷனரா இருந்த டாக்டர் என்.எஸ். மோகன்தான் என்னோட மாமா. ஒருமுறை “ நான் உன்னை டாக்டருக்கு படிக்க வைக்கலேன்னா, நீ இப்படி உட்கார்ந்த இடத்துல இருந்துகிட்டு சம்பாதிக்க முடியுமான்னு அவங்க அப்பா ஒரு பேச்சுக்கு கேட்டிருக்கார். அதுல என் மாமாவுக்கு வைராக்கியம் வந்துடுச்சு. அதுக்குப் பிறகு டாக்டர் தொழிலை விட்டுட்டு சென்னையில வந்து, கொஞ்ச கொஞ்சமா உழைச்சு முன்னேறி, கிரானைட் தொழில்ல ஷைன் பண்ணியிருக்கார். பெரிய ஆளா வந்த பிறகு ,ஒரு பென்ஸ் கார் வாங்கிட்டுப் போய் அதை அப்பா முன்னாடி நிறுத்தியிருக்கார். அந்த மாதிரி தன்னை நம்பி ஜெயிச்சவர்.

If you have enough money in your pocket.. you will be more happier than before.

Its true...

What are the keys to excellent job performance?

First and foremost, LISTEN to what is being asked of you. Nothing makes you look dumber than having to have your boss tell you twice. DO what is asked of you......most times that is what is required. We get ourselves in trouble when we try and read the boss's mind and add our own take on the assignment.

DO NOT gossip about your co-workers, don't listen either. Never speak badly of the boss, because you never know if it will get back to them.

DO NOT try to answer questions if you are not sure of the answer. Answer, quickly and with authority the ones you do know. Do that and soon people will think you know it all because they only remember you always giving the right answer.

BE ON TIME, BE NEAT.....perception means a lot. Look like a bum and be treated like one. Look like a pro and be treated like one.

Understand the time table for assignments, use the time you have to be accurate. Getting things done ahead of schedule is great, but only if it's right.

Never blame others, never lie.....truth may sometimes hurt but you'll garner respect because of it. And the bonus here is that the boss will believe you when you have to give an answer.

NEVER save bad news until after the fact. If something is going poorly, report the problem and look for help. If there is a problem, try and have a workable solution to discuss once you have made the boss aware of the situation.

I could go on and on.......but I think you should have the idea.

What lessons can we learn from successful entrepreneurs?

I think entrepreneurs teach people about hard work and dedication because an entrepreneur has a desire to achieve, the push to conquer problems, and give birth to a successful venture. It involves hard work and most are generally workaholics (Everyone who knows Donald Trump knows he is ). Entrepreneurs have a nurturing quality and are willing to take charge of, and watch over a venture until it can stand alone. They have an acceptance of responsibility. They are morally, legally, and mentally accountable for their ventures. Some entrepreneurs may be driven more by altruism than by self-interest. They reward orientation and have a desire to achieve, work hard and take responsibility, but also want to be rewarded handsomely for their efforts; rewards can be in forms other than money, such as recognition and respect. They are optomistic and live by the philosophy that this is the best of times, and that anything is possible. They have an orientation to excellence and often desire to achieve something outstanding that they can be proud of. They have strong organization and are good at bringing together the components (including people) of a venture. They want to make a profit; but the profit serves primarily as a meter to gauge their success and achievement. The demand theory holds that entrepreneurs emerge out of the combination of entrepreneurial opportunities and people who are well-positioned to take advantage of them. Thus, anyone who encounters the right conditions might become an entrepreneur, if they find themselves in a position where they find a valuable problem that they alone can solve.

Working in the nights and sleeping in the days.. totally my life style has been changed.. But still lots of thing to do... Lets kick start the things again... 

Khalifa - Being a Leader...

ADDICTED TO THIS NEW TRACK OF A.R

If..

In case if I will get a chance to meet his hubby.. I will list all the things to him... which she likes most (veg noodles, dolls, pulsar, jiva movies, surprises,rain, ear rings, don't lie...) and say like take care of my best friend well... 

I am going to watch beautiful movies again on every week end. lets start downloading the below movies for this week.

Kai Po Che

I saw the devil

Going to Enjoy the weekend.

What a pair.. My all time fav song..

Kabhi Jo Badal...

Illayaraja and Bala..

patakha guddi female version full song...

Osm lyrics and superb voice...

FLUTE..

CLOSE YOUR EYES AND LISTEN THIS TRACK.. A.R Rocks...

u

You want to come in my life, the door is open. You want to get out of my life, the door is open. Just one request. Don't stand at the door, you're blocking the traffic.

துன்பம் என் நண்பன்; அதை நான் வெறுக்க மாட்டேன். உலகத்தில் அபார சாதனைகளைச் சாதிப்பதற்காகவே பிறந்த எனக்குத் துன்பம்தான் தூய நண்பன். இன்பம் என் விரோதி. அது என்னைச் சோம்பேறியாக்கி விடும். அதை நான் வெறுக்கின்றேன்..." - நெப்போலியன்

ஒரு ப்ரெஞ்ச் பொன்மொழியை அடிக்கடி நினைத்துக் கொள்வேன்.

"புத்தகங்களும், நண்பர்களும் குறைவாக இருந்தாலும் சிறந்ததாக இருக்க வேண்டும்." 

புத்தகங்களில் சிறந்தவை எது என்பதை வாசிப்பு தெளிவுபடுத்தும். நண்பர்களில் சிறந்தவர்கள் யார் என்பதை அனுபவம்தான் தீர்மானிக்கும். என்னிடமோ சிறப்பான புத்தகங்கள் நிறைய உண்டு. நண்பர்கள் தான் அடிக்கடி பரிசீலிக்கப்படுபவர்களாக இருக்கிறார்கள்

எதிர்ப்பு என்பதை வன்முறையோடு எதிர்கொள்ள வேண்டும் என்பதில்லை.

the day your best ones stop scolding you for ur mistakes, is the day you have lost your name from their hearts......!

பணம்தான் எல்லாவற்றியும்
தீர்மானிக்கிறது என்பது
முட்டாள்களின் கருத்து.
தன்னம்பிக்கை போதும்,
அதுவும் பணத்தை
உருவாக்கக் கற்றுக் கொடுக்கும்.

Amma..

How Perfect....

Sometimes when you are just home with the people you love, you realize how perfect the simplest things in life are.

If you want to take care of your customers, you need to be present with them and be in the moment.

What are you doing to re-fire your life? F.I.R.E - faith, intellect, relationships, and energy - K.B

New Company... New Peoples.. New Environment.. New Challenges.. Still Miles to Go...

I am going to complete my Google Analytics Certificate on 9th June 2014. 

Build Trust at Work Through 25 Ways

1. Follow-through on your commitments.
2. Take a genuine interest in your colleagues.
3. Mentor someone.
4. Strive to be the best at what you do.
5. Tell the truth.
6. Don’t gossip.
7. Keep confidences.
8. Listen well.
9. Incorporate the ideas of others.
10. Praise people for a job well done.
11. Be responsive to requests.
12. Under-promise and over-deliver.
13. Walk your talk.
14. Stand up for what is right.
15. Admit your mistakes.
16. Apologize when necessary.
17. Constantly build your expertise.
18. Build rapport with others.
19. Be inclusive and appreciate diversity.
20. Be on time for meetings and appointments.
21. Demonstrate strong organizational skills.
22. Say please and thank you.
23. Go out of your way to help others.
24. Be receptive to feedback.
25. Be friendly.

Arjith Singh

My all time fav song and music...  Infinity likes and my special dedication to my honey..

Bharathiiiii....

.........................................பல

வேடிக்கை மனிதரைப் போலே - நான்
வீழ்வே னென்று நினைத் தாயோ ?

Everything..

Everything happens for a reason. Maybe you don't see the reason right now, but when it is finally revealed.. it will blow you away.

SPB IS MY ALL TIME FAVOURITE SINGER EVER.. HE IS TELLING ABOUT THE GREAT MUSIC DIRECTOR ILLAYARAJA, A.R....

Ajith = Confidence & Will Power...

Best BGM & My Hero..

When there is a God, there is an Evil too.. Everything has a positive and a negative side of it... Negativity is easy to acquire and get attracted to.. but eventually it kills you.. Choose the path of goodness and enjoy peace in heart.. Its absolutely worth the effort !

vizhithavan thoonga koodathu... ezhunthappin vizhuthal aagathu...

Such a energetic song..


Lyrics:

thirumbi vaa un dhisaiyathu therinthathu maaripogaathey
varuvathai nee ethirkondu paarthidu kozhai aagathey
un ila ratham athu nitham kothikkattum
enniya ennam athu endrum jeikattum
thappethum illai nee appanukku pillai

edhirthu nil ethiriye illai
nambikkai kol thadaigaley illai
nimidam yen nodigaley pothum
ninaipathey vetrithaane..ezhunthu vaa

laayillala layi illa la leyo..
laayillala layi illa la leyo..
laayillala layi illa la leyo..
ninaipathey vetrithaane..ezhunthu vaa

kanna varuvathai etrukol
kaal pathivugal azhiyaathu
vaan velivarai thottu chel
un parambarai mudivethu

vizhithavan thoonga koodathu
ezhunthappin vizhuthal aagathu
varaatha pozhuthu varugira pozhuthu vaarikol
thaaratha ondrai tharugira neram vaa paranthu
manmel irunthu vinn pol uyarnthu

edhirthu nil ethiriye illai
nambikkai kol thadaigaley illai
nimidam yen nodigale pothum
ninaipathey vetrithaane..ezhunthu vaa

ondrae uruvena ennikol
endre nijamana yetrukol
anbaa inainthathu vilagaathu
athuve irai arul oppukol

ninaithathai nadathi munneru
nilaikatum namathu varalaaru
ethaana pothum vidigira pozhuthu maarumo
yellorkum inge ini varum kaalam
aanandham thaan aarambam ithu nirantharamthaan

thirumbi vaa un dhisai ithu therinthathu maaripogaathey
varuvathai nee ethirkondu paarthidu kozhai aagathey
un ila ratham athu nitham kothikkattum
enniya ennam athu endrum jeikattum
thappethum illai nee appanukku pillai

edhirthu nil ethiriye illai
nambikkai kol thadaigaley illai
nimidam yen nodigaley pothum
ninaipathey vetrithaane..ezhunthu vaa

laayillala layi illa la leyo..
laayillala layi illa la leyo..
laayillala layi illa la leyo..
ninaipathey vetrithaane..ezhunthu vaa

ninaipathey vetrithaane..ezhunthu vaa

Tum Hi Ho Lyrics Translation

Tum Hi Ho Lyrics Translation:

Hum tere bin ab reh nahin sakte
Tere bina kyaa vajood meraa

I can't live without you now,
What's my existence without you..

Tujh se judaa gar ho jaayenge
To khud se hi ho jaayenge judaa

If I get separated from you,
I'll be separated from my own self..

Kyonki tum hi ho
Ab tum hi ho
Zindagi, ab tum hi ho
Chain bhi, meraa dard bhi
Meri aashiqui ab tum hi ho

Because you alone are,
Now you only are,
life. You're my life.
My peace, and my pain,
you alone are my love..

Teraa meraa rishtaa hai kaisaa
Ik pal door gawaaraa nahi
Tere liye har roz hain jeete
Tujh ko diyaa meraa waqt sabhi
Koi lamhaa meraa naa ho tere binaa
Har saans pe naam teraa

How's this relationship of ours,
I don't like distance of even a moment
Every day, I live for you
All my time is for you..
There shouldn't be a moment of mine without you,
There is your name on every breath..

Tere liye hi jiyaa main
Khud ko jo yoon de diya hai
Teri wafaa ne mujh ko sambhaalaa
Saare ghamon ko dil se nikaala
Tere saath mera hai naseeb juDaa
Tujhe paa ke adhoora naa raha

For you, I lived
I have given myself (to you)
Your faith [actually means 'my love for you' here] took care of me
Took all the sorrows from (my) heart
With you my fate is attached,
Getting you, Nothing is incomplete (within me, I got completed)..

Did You Know That???

1. Your shoes are the first thing people subconsciously notice about you. Wear nice shoes.

2. If you sit for more than 11 hours a day, there's a 50% chance you'll die within the next 3 years

3. There are at least 6 people in the world who look exactly like you. There's a 9% chance that you'll meet one of them in your lifetime.

4. Sleeping without a pillow reduces back pain and keeps your spine stronger.

5. A person’s height is determined by their father, and their weight is determined by their mother.

6. If a part of your body "falls asleep", you can almost always "wake it up" by shaking your head.

7. There are three things the human brain cannot resist noticing - Food, attractive people and danger

8. Right-handed people tend to chew food on their right side

9. Putting dry tea bags in gym bags or smelly shoes will absorb the unpleasant odour.

10. According to Albert Einstein, if honey bees were to disappear from earth, humans would be dead within 4 years.

11. There are so many kind of apples, that if you ate a new one everyday, it would take over 20 years to try them all.

12. You can survive without eating for weeks, but you will only live 11 days without sleeping.

13. People who laugh a lot are healthier than those who don’t.

14. Laziness and inactivity kills just as many people as smoking.

15. A human brain has a capacity to store 5 times as much information as Wikipedia

16. Our brain uses same amount power as 10-watt light bulb!!

17. Our body gives enough heat in 30 mins to boil 1.5 litres of water!!

18. The Ovum egg is the largest cell and the sperm is the smallest cell !!

19. Stomach acid (conc. HCl) is strong enough to dissolve razor blades!!

20. Take a 10-30 minute walk every day. & while you walk, SMILE. It is the ultimate antidepressant.

I love this pic :)

with the cute, little yellow flowers in Kodaikanal Garden...  Photo Credit - Prakash.

Patakha Guddi AR Rahman The Best

Now I Decided... Fuck It.

Ivory, Oil, Gold...

Diamonds.

So one day I decided, "Fuck It" You know?

I wanna get mine.

-> Blood Diamond Movie.

15 APRIL 2014

IN KODAIKANAL WENT TO THE TOP OF THE ROCK WHERE MOST OF THE PEOPLE FEAR TO GO. EVEN I FEARED IN THE BEGINNING, BUT I WANNA TRY IT ANYWAY..

ITS AMAZING EXPERIENCE EVER IN MY LIFE.

BACK TO HOME WITH FRESH AIR AND MIND. SOME GOOD LESSONS I LEARNED WITH THE PEOPLE WHOM I SPENT THOSE 3 DAYS.

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Today I read the below sentence in the poster near to chetpet..

Muyarchi seithal mudiyathathu onrum ellai.
Muyarchi sei, vetrikal unnai thedi varum

Our life always expresses the result of our dominant thoughts.

My Guru!

He is my Guru and he will guide me & my family in all the ways of my life. 

Maattram Ondrudhaan Maaraadhadhu

Perfect Lyrics... its my ringtone now..

Penne O Penne

11 April 2014

1. Today finally I got my relieving letter from the company where I worked more than 3 years. 

2. Waiting for tomorrow night.. Going to Munnar and Kodaikanal to enjoy the climate with my friends (colleagues). After 2 years, I am going to see one of my mentor who taught me how to work and communicate with international clients through your style of work.

3. She is going to start a new life and I wish you my friend. My advanced wishes to her. It's a totally different life for her, but I hope she can handle well. 

Sorry my dear friend, I unable to come on your day. Anyway Keep smiling.. Take Care.. All is well.

உலகத்தில் எல்லா முயற்சியும் யுத்தம்தான். வெற்றியில் விருப்பமெனில் வலி தாங்கு.புழுங்கிச்சாவதை விட போரிட்டு மடிவது உத்தமம்.வெறும் கனவுப் படுக்கையில் நோயுற்றுச் சாவதைவிட யுத்த நினைவுகளான அம்புப்படுக்கையில் பீஷ்மநென மடிவது மேல். இவ்விதி புரிந்தவருக்கு போர் எளிது. வாழ்க்கையும் ருசிக்கும்.

-இதற்குத் தானே ஆசைப்பட்டாய் பாலகுமாரா!

Vikram Acting...

The world is changed by examples. not by opinions

Many times the wrong train took me to the right place.

It is the possibility of having dream come true that makes life intersting.

You are what you believe yourself to be

The secret of life, though, is to fall seven times and to get up eight times.

Love everybody, but never sell your sword.

Anyone who loves in the expectation of being loved in return is wasting their time.

If it's still in your mind it is worth taking the risk.

Close some doors. not because of pride, incapacity or arrogance, but simply because they no longer lead somewhere.

BE BRAVE, TAKE RISKS NOTHING CAN SUBSTITUTE EXPERIENCE.

manasula soora kaathey lyrics | manasula soora kaathey song lyrics

manasula soora kaathey song lyrics

manasula soora kaathey lyrics here -> https://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=player_embedded&v=EnXIpjXndaI

"All you have in life is your reputation: you may be very rich, but if you lose your good name, then you'll never be happy. The thought will always lurk at the back of your mind that people don't trust you."

"My interest in life comes from setting myself huge, apparently unachievable challenges and trying to rise above them."

"There are no rules. You don't learn to walk by following rules. You learn by doing, and by falling over, and it's because you fall over that you learn to save yourself from falling over."

"I am the captain of my ship and master of my fate. I believe in myself. I believe in the hands that work, in the brains that think, and in the hearts that love." - R.B

BEST 100 POSITIVE QUOTES EVER - DON'T SETTLE

When someone says you can't do it, you gotta secretly thank them. Let's face it, proving them wrong is a huge motivator

By working faithfully eight hours a day you may eventually get to be boss and work twelve hours a day. — Robert Frost

If you can hold it in your head, you can hold it in your hand.

Its better to be a lion for a day than a sheep all your life

If you want to be rich, simply serve more people.

There are fast ideas and slow ideas, just as there are fast trains and slow trains. When it comes to money, most people are on the slow train looking out the window watching the fast train pass them by. If you want to become rich quickly, your plan must include fast ideas.

Find the game where you can win, and then commit your life to playing it; and play to win.

The richest people in the world build networks; everyone else is trained to look for work.

Always remember that it's not money that will make you rich, it's business skills.

The moment you make passive income and portfolio income a part of your life, your life

will change. Those words will become flesh

The poor, the unsuccessful, the unhappy, the unhealthy are the ones who use the word tomorrow the most.

It's not what you say out of your mouth that determines your life, it's what you whisper to yourself that has the most power.

Thinking is hard work. When you are forced to think, you expand your mental capacity. When you expand your mental capacity, your wealth increases.

The size of your success is measured by the strength of your desire; the size of your dream; and how you handle disappointment along the way.

Start small and dream big.

The richest people in the world build networks; everyone else is trained to look for work.

If you want to be rich, you need to develop your vision. You must be standing on the edge of time gazing into the future.

you're life may suck because you say it sucks, and you're not willing to do anything to make your life better, maybe because you took a risk and failed. don't let that stop you, go out and do something !

Also the guy who got fired from his own company, only to return 12 years later to transformed the world. - Steve Jobsdropped out of college and was fired from his own company....steve jobs.

chance to succeed= risk

am nt giving up, i knw i can make it, am gonna make it, i must make it...i stand in d face of ma challenges n say am an overcomer....i must succeed. I BELIVE IN MYSELF.

Failure, the key to success.

The problem's in the life are due to man's ignore and lack of discipline.

The world is a reflection of yourself.

When Olympic decathlon gold medalist Bruce Jenner asked a roomful of Olympic hopefuls if they had a list of written goals, every one raised their hands. When he asked how many of them had that list with them right that moment, only one person raised their hand. That person was Dan O’Brien. And it was Dan O’Brien who went on to win the gold medal in the decathlon at the 1996 Olympics in Atlanta. Don’t underestimate the power of setting goals and constantly reviewing them.

while other guys are sleep, I m working

while other guys are eating, I m working

if u r not skilled, u failed

Life is as difficult as you make it ....we all have our own issues ...the solution is within us....we only need to find it!

I can truly turn things around

I change my mindeset and confidence, change myselfe, becoming more.

 I began to searchfor role models, those who could create change with lightning – like speed.

Come what may, I will never be tired of racing

You must remain focused on your journey to greatness

Don't be pushed by your problems. Be led by your dreams

Don't limit your challenges - challenge your limits

As long as you're going to be thinking anyway, think big.

Politeness matters. Punctuality counts. Mastery wins. Period.

You can't win if you don't even start.

Make your faith larger than your fears. And your dreams bigger than your doubts

There's not even one of us who cannot dramatically rise up above our circumstances via rising up against our fears.

Stop managing your time. Start managing your focus.

Shift from "This can't be done" to "I can do this...and I'm getting it done NOW."

Be good to your body so it'll be great to your life

Start planning out your Ideal 2014 on ONE page today. Clarity is Power

All great works require daily practice. And endless patience.

Clear daily/weekly/monthly goals=your future coming to get you.

Today's a superb day to start a new life.

When a giant opportunity shows up, don't overanalyze it. Jump all over it.

“People are not lazy, they simply have impotent goals..that is..goals that do not inspire them.”

“If you raise your standards but don’t really believe you can meet them, you’ve already sabotaged yourself. You won’t even try; you’ll be lacking the sense of certainty that allows you to tap the deepest capacity that’s within you… Our beliefs are like unquestioned commands, telling us how things are, what’s possible and impossible and what we can and can not do. They shape every action, every thought and every feeling that we experience. As a result, changing our belief systems is central to making any real and lasting change in our lives.” ~ Anthony Robbins

All successful people learn that success is buried on the other side of frustration. Unfortunately, some people don’t get to the other side… They allow frustration to keep them from taking the necessary actions that would support them in achieving their desire. You get through this roadblock by plowing through frustration, taking each setback as feedback you can learn from, and pushing ahead.” ~ Anthony Robbins

“The most powerful way to control your focus is through the use of questions.” ~ Anthony Robbins

You see, in life, lots of people know what to do, but few people actually do what they know. Knowing is not enough! You must take action.” ~ Anthony Robbins

“Whatever happens, take responsibility.” ~

“What we can or cannot do, what we consider possible or impossible, is rarely a function of our true capability. It is more likely a function of our beliefs about who we are.” ~ Anthony Robbins

We will act consistently with our view of who we truly are, whether that view is accurate or not.”

“We can change our lives. We can do, have, and be exactly what we wish.” ~ Anthony Robbins

Using the power of decision gives you the capacity to get past any excuse to change any and every part of your life in an instant.”

“Live life fully while you're here. Experience everything. Take care of yourself and your friends. Have fun, be crazy, be weird. Go out and screw up! You're going to anyway, so you might as well enjoy the process. Take the opportunity to learn from your mistakes: find the cause of your problem and eliminate it. Don't try to be perfect; just be an excellent example of being human.”

“If you can't you must, and if you must you can.”

“The path to success is to take massive, determined action.”

“Every problem is a gift - without problems we would not grow.”

― Anthony Robbins

“In essence, if we want to direct our lives, we must take control of our consistent actions. It's not what we do once in a while that shapes our lives, but what we do consistently.”

“I believe life is constantly testing us for our level of commitment, and life's

greatest rewards are reserved for those who demonstrate a never-ending

commitment to act until they achieve. This level of resolve can move mountains, but it must be constant and consistent. As simplistic as this may

sound, it is still the common denominator separating those who live their

dreams from those who live in regret.”

Why live an ordinary life, when you can live an extraordinary one.”

When someone says you can't do it, you gotta secretly thank them. Let's face it, proving them wrong is a huge motivator

By working faithfully eight hours a day you may eventually get to be boss and work twelve hours a day. — Robert Frost

If you can hold it in your head, you can hold it in your hand.

Its better to be a lion for a day than a sheep all your life

The challenge of leadership is to have enough power and vision to be able to project in advance what outcome will result from your actions, large and small.

If we surround ourselves with people who are successful, who are forward-moving, who are positive, who are focused on producing results, who support us, it will challenge us to be more and do more and share more. If you can surround yourself with people who will never let you settle for less than you can be, you have the greatest gift that anyone can hope for.

STEVE JOBS:

He didn't allow other people to have second-rate standard

Simplicity

To take chances, work hard, and never compromise on yourself.

 Perfectionism

I'll show you what I mean

Next, that means future

I don't think much about my time of life. I just get up in the morning and it's a new day. Somebody told me when I was 17 to live each day as if it were my last, and that one day I'd be right. I am at a stage where I don't have to do things just to get by. But then I've always been that way because I've never really cared about money that much. I guess what I'm trying to say is that I feel the same way now as I felt when I was 17.

I think if you do something and it turns out pretty good, then you should go do something else wonderful, not dwell on it for too long. Just figure out what’s next

Don't settle.

  

“What ever you do, do it well. Do it so well that when people see you do it they will want to come back and see you do it again and they will want to bring others and show them how well you do what you do.”

Some days we wake up feeling full of positive energy but then we go and allow one negative comment or criticism to bring us down. It's pretty easy to feel bad and lose focus. It takes a lot of strength to stay unshaken and remain positive.

Even in our weakest moments, we're all capable of being much stronger than we will let ourselves believe.

"Remember, the thoughts that you think and the statements you make regarding yourself determine your mental attitude. If you have a worthwhile objective, find the one reason why you can achieve it rather than hundreds of reasons why you can't."

You are in charge of you. Don't waste time blaming others, be accountable and experience the freedom that comes with that accountability.

Marriage is extremely difficult and unnatural. You have to constantly work on yourself. It’s almost impossible to be head over heels in love with someone, every day, forever. You fight, you make up, you change, you grow, you fight, you make up, you change, you adjust and then eventually you are too old to give a shit and then you die.

There is no such thing as the perfect man or woman, it’s a myth. Even if you were to find the perfect someone, you would be over him or her and bored in a matter of time - these are the facts.

there IS something special about sharing a lifetime with only one person. Maybe it’s time for our generation to start from scratch with someone, rather than go into a relationship expecting compatibility and perfection. Grow together; it’s a gamble on both sides.

I hate dominance....

She is my friend in the college where I am doing my MBA in distance. Due to some privacy i don't wanna say her name here. We are good friends for more than a year and she is like my sister.

I saw her last few classes, she wasn't good while seeing her face. I asked what happened?

She said my sister got engagement. I said then its a good news only right.

She replied yes but... I asked what?

She asked me one question. If you are going to marry a girl. Will you ask her to don't go for a job? I said its totally its her own wish and her interest based on it.

So I said no.

She asked me again why you are saying NO?

I said like see.. If the girl is educated and she is going to the job in the sense, she will feel like she is not depend on me and she will gain the confidence on herself.

Also until finishing the studies she unable to see the outer world like how it is? So she gotta only chance to face the world and enjoy the world on her own through the job only.

She said perfect. This is the one I am expecting for me and my sister. My sister going to complete her Masters and she got selected for training in Bangalore. But my dad picked one guy for him, he and his family saying like she don't go for any job.

I asked one question to her: What your sister said? As per my parents wish she is saying.

I said one thing, don't mistake me. Your dad & Your sister is the filtered idiot here.

She said Yes I agree.

Why in the sense?

Your dad:
Don't know what is the real happiness he will give if she will go for that job?
He is not believing the outer world like job thing...etc
Finally the real truth is he is not believing your sister 100%  if he is believing her he will give a chance for her dream.

Your sister:
She is acting and spoiling her dream.
Why she studied master better marry after U.G itself na?
She wasted 2 years totally due to this master?

The Guy who saw your sister:

If he is saying don't go for a job in the sense, its reflecting his attitude.

Here itself he started dominating your sister and how it will work in the future?

He is not seeing the value of her education here.

Anyway your sister chapter over, don't cry for her. Because she got engagement.

This is the lesson for you through your sister. Speak Boldly I will go to the job to the guy whom you are going to see in the future. If you have a dream to go the job or else keep your mouth shut to your dad and get marry to the person.

SHE SAID FINALLY I WILL SPEAK FIRST TO MY DAD BOLDLY, THEN I WILL SPEAK TO THAT GUY.

IF THE GIRL IS EDUCATED AND STAND ON HER OWN, ITS PURELY SPREAD TO THE FAMILY.

GUYS: COME ON AND SUPPORT THE GIRL.

Now Watching alaipyuthey movie at 12.30 A.M .. when ever I watched this move I love to fall in love the girl who seems like a heroine (straightforward, simple, no act & pure love) in this movie..

I love my wife and I don't know where she is. I am dedicating this movie to her. I wish and pray to god and my wife should be like this heroine.. not in the beauty but character.

kill urself even its so tough to work.

Don't run.. Just turn and face it.

Be positive and encourage the things which u have it now.

"You will never be mine, and that is why I will never lose you." - Eleven Minutes.

28 Feb 2014

Don't be disappointed if people refuse to help you. Remember the words of Einstein:

I am thankful to all those who said no. Because of them I did it myself.

Close some doors not because of pride, incapactiy or arrogance, but simply because they no longer lead somewhere.

Fake People have an image to maintain. Real people just don't care.


My strength did not come from lifting weights. My strength came from lifting myself up when I was knocked down.

Believing that you are the best might look like over confidence….some times it works & having that blind faith will help you move a step forward….

People go through their whole lives chasing everything in the material world, and they fail to discover the greatest treasure of all, which is within them. Shut your eyes to the outside world. Direct your thoughts and words to the inside of you. The Master within you is the key to all the treasures in the world.
> thesecret

To My Wife....

100 ways to love you:

1. Communicate with her; never close her out.
2. Regard her as important.
3. Do everything you can to understand her feelings.
4. Be interested in her friends.
5. Ask her opinion frequently.
6. Value what she says.
7. Let her feel your approval and affection.
8. Protect her on a daily basis.
9. Be gentle and tender with her.
10. Develop a sense of humor.
11. Avoid sudden major changes without discussion and without giving her time to adjust.
12. Learn to respond openly and verbally when she wants to communicate.
13. Comfort her when she’s down emotionally. Put your arms around her & hold her.
14. Be interested in what she feels is important in life.
15. Correct her gently and tenderly.
16. Allow her to teach you without putting up your defenses.
17. Make special time available to her and your children.
18. Be trustworthy.
19. Compliment her often.
20. Be creative when you express your love, either in words or actions.
21. Have specific family goals for each year.
22. Let her buy things she considers necessary.
23. Be forgiving when she offends you.
24. Show her you need her.
25. Accept her the way she is; discover her uniqueness as special.
26. Admit your mistakes; don’t be afraid to be humble.
27. Defend her to others.
28. Allow your wife to fail; discuss what went wrong after you’ve comforted her.
29. Rub her feet or neck after a hard day.
31. Go on romantic outings.
32. Write her a letter occasionally, telling her how much you love her.
33. Surprise her with a card or flowers.
34. Express how proud you are of her.
35. Tell her how much you appreciate her.
36. Give advice in a loving way when she asks for it.
37. Lead your family in their spiritual relationship with God.
38. Prefer her to others.
39. Don’t expect her to enjoy god’s best in life.
40. Pray for her to enjoy God’s best in life.
41. Take time to notice what she has done for you and the family.
42. Brag about her to other people behind her back.
43. Share your thoughts and feelings with her.
44. Tell her about your job, if she’s interested.
45. Take time to see how she spends her day, at work or at home.
46. Take care of the kids before dinner.
47. Learn to enjoy what she enjoys.
48. Help straighten up the house before mealtime.
49. Let her take a bubble bath while you do the dishes.
50. Understand her physical limitations if you have several children.
51. Discipline the children in love, not anger.
52. Help her finish her goals, hobbies or education.
53. Treat her as if God had stamped on her forehead, “Handle with Care”.
54. Get rid of habits that annoy her.
55. Be gentle and thoughtful to her relatives.
56. Don’t compare her relatives with yours in a negative way.
57. Thank her for things she has done without expecting anything in return.
58. Don’t expect a band to play whenever you help with the housecleaning.
59. Make sure she understands everything you’re planning to do.
60. Do little things for her—an unexpected kiss, coffee in bed.
61. Treat her as an intellectual equal.
62. Find out if she wants to be treated as physically weaker.
63. Discover her fears in life.
64. See what you can do to eliminate those fears.
65. Discover her sexual needs.
66. Ask if she wants to discuss how you can meet her sexual needs.
67. Find out what makes her insecure.
68. Plan your future together.
69. Don’t quarrel over words, but try to find hidden meanings.
70. Practice common courtesies like holding the door for her, pouring her coffee.
71. Ask her if you offend her sexually in any way.
72. Ask if she’s jealous of anyone.
73. See if she’s uncomfortable about the way money is spent.
74. Take her on dates now and then.
75. Hold her hand in public.
76. Put your arm around her in front of friends.
77. Tell her you love her often.
78. Remember anniversaries, birthdays, and other special occasions.
79. Learn to enjoy shopping.
80. Teach her to hunt and fish or whatever you enjoy doing.
81. Give her a special gift from time to time.
82. Share the responsibilities around the house.
83. Don’t belittle her feminine characteristics.
84. Let her express herself freely, without fear of being called stupid or illogical.
85. Carefully choose your words, especially when angry.
86. Don’t criticize her in front of other.
87. Don’t let her see you become excited about the physical features of another woman.
88. Be sensitive to other people.
89. Let your family know you want to spend special time with them.
90. Fix dinner for her from time to time.
91. Be sympathetic when she’s sick.
92. Call her when you’re going to be late.
93. Don’t disagree with her in front of the children.
94. Take her out to dinner and for weekend getaways.
95. Do the “little things” she needs from time to time.
96. Give her special time alone with her friends.
97. Buy her what she considers an intimate gift.
98. Read a book she recommends to you.
99. Give her engraved plaque assuring her of your lasting love.
100. Write her a poem about how special she is.

♥ You fill up my senses...
Like a night in a forest... ♥

I belong with you 
You belong with me,
You're my baby...

You are a beautiful soul.. Amazing in your own way..
It may be your eyes, your smile, your laugh, your inner glow...
Everyone one of us has a quality that someone else admires....
" You Are Special My baby.."

The power of a gun can kill
and the power of Fire can Burn
The power of wind can chill
and the power of the mind can learn
The power of anger can rage
inside until it tears you apart
But the Power of a Smile
especially yours can heal a frozen Heart...

How can i arrange my words to say....
How special U are to me...
U are the themes of my life...
U are the beloved prince....
U are my love
U are in my memories
U are in my all acceptance.
Every single beat of my heart is just for U
Every breath i inhales, it's just for U....
All this is because I LOVE U MY baby!!

YoU mAy Be s0mEtHiNg LiTtLe In ThIs BiG w0rLd
BuT y0u aRe My EvErYtHiNg In My LiTtLE w0rLd...♥

The Time when I am going to spend With You...
Is The Most Beautiful Time Of My Life... ♥

I'll be your platinum, I'll be your silver, I'll be your gold
As long as you love, love, love, love me
As long as you love, love, love, love me
As long as you love, love, love, love me...

My dreams are close my heart so told ur the one I need you… My Life is here and my mind is there thinking of you being close and holding you… Things change, dreams change but the one who is strong will never fail! - P.S I LOVE YOU!!

One look
One smile
One touch
One embrace
One kiss
One love
Two people
Two minds
Two souls
Two destinies
One road
One journey
One ending
Together.

Love is the condition in which the happiness of another person is essential to your own.

It's not the song that makes you emotional. It's the person that comes to your mind when you hear it . . . I wanna HUG♥....

I would never let your smile go away,
I'll always be with you on every way,
No matter how hard it is to stand,
I'll keep you happy and hold your hand,
There is nothing that can make us apart,
coz I'll always keep you close to my heart..!! 

When you're close it feels so good, I would like to stay like this forever, If there was a way I definitely would, I wish we always stay together, When I wake up I want you to be there, and I just want to stay close to you, I know you will always love and care, I love you now and I'll always do..!


True Love Is When...
Everything in the world is going wrong...
And By Looking To That Special Person...

Everything In The World Is Right Again...???

Have you ever had a moment when you’re with the one person in the world you want to be with and the wind is blowing through your hair and the song that just describes your entire soul happens to come on and then the person you happen to want to be with happens to love the same song and suddenly you realize you’re listening to it together and no matter how crazy your life has gotten, there’s this one moment, this perfect moment where you could just say that no matter what happens nothing can take this moment away from me…

63 Ways to Make Her Feel Special

1. Regularly express to her that you need and value her.
2. Do things that make you laugh together.
3. Compliment her for her special qualities and be specific.
4. Put your arms around her when she needs comfort.
5. Speak respectfully, don’t demean her or hurt her feelings.
6. Give her time to be with her friends.
7. Take regular walks hand-in-hand.
8. Be enthusiastic over things that she’s excited about.
9. Do something you think she wants done before she asks.
10. Discuss changes with her first before you make them.
11. Show interest in the relationship and the things she values.
12. Allow her to teach you things without being defensive.
13. Let go of the small stuff.
14. Be a good listener and value what she says.
15. Get away from the routine to spend time together.
16. Go shopping with her without watching the clock.
17. Make her breakfast and clean up afterward.
18. Set specific relationship goals to achieve together.
19. Act like you are partners in all areas life.
20. Don’t take her for granted, always be polite. 
21. Admit your mistakes, and ask for forgiveness.
22. Defend her to others, especially to your family.
23. Don’t belittle her intelligence.
24. Scratch her back, rub her feet, and massage her neck.
25. Be especially helpful when she is not feeling well.
26. When she asks how your day went, give her details.
27. Never argue over money, it will damage your relationship.
28. Don’t embarrass her in front of others.
29. Make eye contact when the two of you are talking.
30. Show that you prefer her company over all others.
31. Give her your full attention whenever possible.
32. When she expresses her feelings listen with your heart.
33. Never flirt with another woman.
34. Brag about her and your relationship to others.
35. Surprise her with a card and flowers.
36. Call her when you know you are going to be late.
37. Give her your undivided attention when she’s talking.
38. Never compare her unfavorably with others.
39. Take care of yourself, It shows you care.
40. Be supportive. Help her to achieve her goals.
41. Run errands without complaining.
42. Sit close to her, even when you’re just watching TV.
43. Include her when you make plans.
44. Do things that make her feel cherished as a woman.
45. Build trust into your relationship.
46. Surprise her with a 15+ second kiss.
47. Stay in good of shape so she’s proud to be with you.
48. Be kinder to her than you are to strangers.
49. Make sure she feels valued above everyone else.
50. Continue to court her and date her.
51. Show affection for her in front of friends.
52. Hold her close when she is hurt or discouraged.
53. Surprise her with an unexpected gift.
54. Don’t forget to hold her hand in public.
55. Honor her and support her dignity.
56. Don’t dishonor her by eyeballing other women.
57. Fix dinner for her sometimes.
58. Be sympathetic when she’s feeling down.
59. Don’t ignore the small things that bother her.
60. Do things around the house that she wants done.
61. Tell her and show her that you love her every day.
62. When you’re away call or email often.
63. Show her affection without sexual intentions.

Little Ways A Man Can Keep His Partner's Love Tank Full

1. Upon returning home, find her first before doing anything else and give her a hug.

2. Ask her specific questions about her day that indicate an awareness of what she was planning to do.
(e.g., "How did your day go? Did you have fun at the mall?")

3. Pratice listening and asking questions.

4. Resist the temptations to solve her problems.

5. Give her twenty minutes of unsolicited, quality attention (don't read the newspaper or be distracted by anything else during this time).

6. Bring her cut flowers as a surprise as well as on special occasions.

7. Plan a date several days in advance, rather than waiting for Friday night and asking her what she wants to do.

8. If she generally makes dinner or if it is her turn and she seems tired or really busy, offer to make dinner.

9. Compliment her on how she looks.

10. Validate her feelings when she is upset.

11. Offer to help her when she is tired.

12. Schedule extra time when traveling so that she doesn't have to rush.

13. When you are going to be late, call her and let her know.

14. When she asks for support, say yes or no without making her wrong for asking.

15. Whenever her feelings have been hurt, give her some empathy and tell her "I'm sorry you feel hurt." Then be silent; let her feel your understanding of her hurt. Don't offer solutions or explanations why her hurt is not your fault.

16. Whenever you need to pull away, let her know you will be back or that you need some time to think about things.

17. When you've cooled off and you come back, talk about what was bothering you in a respectful, nonblaming way, so she doesn't imagine the worst.

18. Offer to build a fire in wintertime.

19. When she talks to you, put down the magazine or turn off the TV and give her your full attention.

20. If she usually washes the dishes, occasionally offer to wash the dishes, especially if she is tired that day.

21. Notice when she is upset or tired and ask what she has to do. Then offer to help by doing a few of her "to do" items.

22. When going out, ask if there is anything she wants you to pick up at the store, and remember to pick it up.

23. Let her know when you are planning to take a nap or leave.

24. Give her four hugs a day.

25. Call her from work to ask how she is or to share somehing exciting or to tell her "I love you."

26. Tell her "I love you" at least a couple of times every day.

27. Make the bed and clean up the bedroom.

28. If she washes your socks, turn your socks right side out so she doesn't have to.

29. Notice when the trash is full, and offer to empty it.

30. When you are out of town, call to leave a telephone number when you can be reached an to let her know you arrived safely.

31. Wash her car.

32. Wash your car and clean up the interior before a date with her.

33. Wash before having sex or put on a cologne if she likes that.

34. Take her side when she is upset with someone.

35. Offer to give her a back or neck or foot massage (or all three).

36. Make a point of cuddling or being affectionate soemtimes without being sexual.

37. Be patient whe she is sharing. Don't look at your watch.

38. Don't flick the remote control to different chanels when she is watching TV with you.

39. Display affection in public.

40. When holding hands don't let your hand go limp.

41. Learn her favorite drinks so you can offer her a choice of the ones that you know she already likes.

42. Suggest different restaurants for going out; don't put the burden of figuring out where to go on her.

43. Get season tickets for the theater, symphony, opera, ballet, or some other type of some other type of performance she likes.

44. Create occasions when you both can dress up.

45. Be understanding when she is late or decides to change her outfit.

46. Pay more attention to her than to others in public.

47. Make her more important than the children. Let the children see her first and foremost.

48. Buy her little presents- like a small box of chocolates or perfume.

49. Buy her an outfit (take a picture of your partner along with her sizes to the store and let them help you select it).

50. Take pictures of her on special occasions.

51. Take short romantic getaways.

52. Let her see that you carry a picture of her in your wallet and update it for time to time.

53. When staying in a hotel, have them prepare the room with something special, like a bottle of champagne or sparkling apple juice or flowers.

54. Write a note or make a sign on special occasions such as anniversairies and birthdays.

55. Offer to drive the car on long trips.

56. Drive slowly and safety, respecting her preferences. After all, she is sitting powerless in the front seat.

57. Notice how she is feeling and comment on it- "You look happy today" or "You look tired"- and then ask a question like "How was your day?"

58. When taking her out, study in advance the directions so that she does not have to feel reponsible to navigate.

59. Take her dancing or take dancing lessons together.

60. Surprise her with a love note or poem.

61. Treat her in ways you did at the begging of the relationship.

62. Offer to fix something around the house. Say "What needs to fixed around here? I have some extra time." Don't take on more than you can do.

63. Offer to sharpen her knives in the kitchen.

64. Buy some good SuperGlue to fix things that are broken.

65. Offer to change light bulbs as soon as they go out.

66. Help with recycling the trash.

67. Read out loud or cut out sections of the newspaper that would interest her.

68. Write out neatly any phone messages you make take for her.

69. Keep the bathroom floor clean and dry it after taking a shower.

70. Open the door for her.

71. Offer to carry the groceries.

72. Offer to carry heavy boxes for her.

73. On trips, handle the luggage and be responsible for packing it in the car.

74. If she washes the dishes or it is her turn, offer to help scrub pots or other difficult tasks.

75. Make a "to fix" list and leave it in the kitchen. When you have extra time do something on that list for her. Don't let it get out too long.

76. When she prepare a meal, compliment her cooking.

77. When listening to her talk, use eye contact.

78. Touch her with your hand sometimes when you talk to her.

79. Show interest in what she does during the day, in the books she reads and the people she relates to.

80. When listening to her, reassure her that you are interested by making little noises like as ha, uh-huh, oh, mmhuh, hmmmm.

81. Ask her how she is feeling.

82. If she has been sick in some way, ask for an update and ask how she is doing or feeling.

83. If she is tired offer to make her some tea.

84. Get ready to go to sleep together and get in bed at the same time.

85. Give her a kiss and say ggod-bye when you leave.

86. Laugh at her jokes and humor.

87. Verbally say thank you when she does things for you.

88. Notice when she gets her hair done and give her a reassuring compliment.
89. Create special time to be alone to gether.

90. Don't answer the phone at intimate moments or if she is sharing vulnerable feelings.

91. Go bicycling to gether, even if it's just a short ride.

92. Organize and prepare a picnic. (Remember to bring to picnic cloth.)

93. If she handles the laundry, bring the clothes to the cleaners or offer to do the wash.

94. Take her for a walk without the children.

95. Negotiate in a maner that shows her that you want her to get what she wants and you also want what you want. Be caring, but don't be a martyr.

96. Let her know that you missed her when you went away.

97. Bring home her favorite pie or dessert.

98. If she normally shop for the food, offer to do the food shopping.

99. Eat lightly on romantic occasions so that you don't become stuffed and tired later.

100. Ask her to add her thoughts to this list.

101. Leave the bathroom seat down.