அடுத்தவர்கள் மீது பழிபோடுவதிலும் உடன்பாடு கிடையாது. எங்கே தவறு நடந்தாலும் அதன் விளைவுகளுக்கு நானே முழுப் பொறுப்பு. அதிர்ஷ்டம் என்ற போலியான வார்த்தை என் அகராதியிலேயே கிடையாது. நான் என்ன செய்கிறேனோ, அதன் பலனே எனக்குத் திரும்பக் கிடைக்கும்.
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Showing posts with label motivational. Show all posts
Showing posts with label motivational. Show all posts
What is the difference between a lion and a deer?
The deer gets up in the morning, because he is feeling bored, and lazy. He is not hungry (maybe horny); clueless about what will happen with his fate. He wanders along.. confused.
Later in the day, he will run for sure; but not for fun, he will run to save his life.
The lion can gets up anytime, and if he gets up, its because he is hungry. Very hungry.. Boredom and laziness are the last things on this mind.. He needs food, and he will do everything & anything to get that.
He stretches, he roars, he gallops forward, with fire in his eyes, and hunger in his belly.. He is determined, focused, he is fast, and furious.
Later in the day, he will run for sure; not for fun, but he will run to hunt, to kill and to survive another day.
Source: Facebook.com
Later in the day, he will run for sure; but not for fun, he will run to save his life.
The lion can gets up anytime, and if he gets up, its because he is hungry. Very hungry.. Boredom and laziness are the last things on this mind.. He needs food, and he will do everything & anything to get that.
He stretches, he roars, he gallops forward, with fire in his eyes, and hunger in his belly.. He is determined, focused, he is fast, and furious.
Later in the day, he will run for sure; not for fun, but he will run to hunt, to kill and to survive another day.
Source: Facebook.com
I want to be successful. I want to be a great football player
A teenager of 17 went to a football coach and said:
"Hi Sir, I want to be successful. I want to be a great football player"
Master turned away and asked "Do u know how to swim?"
He replied "No sir. But how has it got any relation with football?"
Master smiled and said "come and meet me in the beach tomorrow morning at 5 a.m.
(Next day morning, by the time, the teenager went, master was already there).
Master started straight away "Go into the water"
He did as he asked. The water was up to his waist.
Master said " deeper".
He did and now the water was up to his neck.
Master ordered "Few more steps"
A teenager moved two feet deeper and the water was now up to his ears and he was shouting "I do not want to learn swimming, I want to learn football".
Master shouted back "Go in"
A teenager did and when he was unable to get his feet on the land, he gasped, tried his best to come forward, to breathe.
Master dragged him out and asked him
"What were you thinking of when you were about to drown? what did you want to do?"
He took his time to catch his breath and said
"I wanted to come out, I wanted to breath"
Master asked again "Did you think of a party?"
He replied "No"
"Did you think of eating, sleeping, watching movies?"
"No, I just wanted to breathe"
Master started explaining, "When you want to succeed as hard as you wanted to breathe, then you'll be successful". You do not care about a party, not about anything. Many of us don't want to be successful as we want to sleep. If you want to be successful, you might need to sleep for only 4 hours, 3 hours, or you might need to work 48 hours without a break. Then you will be successful.
If needed, sacrifice what you are to become what you want to!
"Hi Sir, I want to be successful. I want to be a great football player"
Master turned away and asked "Do u know how to swim?"
He replied "No sir. But how has it got any relation with football?"
Master smiled and said "come and meet me in the beach tomorrow morning at 5 a.m.
(Next day morning, by the time, the teenager went, master was already there).
Master started straight away "Go into the water"
He did as he asked. The water was up to his waist.
Master said " deeper".
He did and now the water was up to his neck.
Master ordered "Few more steps"
A teenager moved two feet deeper and the water was now up to his ears and he was shouting "I do not want to learn swimming, I want to learn football".
Master shouted back "Go in"
A teenager did and when he was unable to get his feet on the land, he gasped, tried his best to come forward, to breathe.
Master dragged him out and asked him
"What were you thinking of when you were about to drown? what did you want to do?"
He took his time to catch his breath and said
"I wanted to come out, I wanted to breath"
Master asked again "Did you think of a party?"
He replied "No"
"Did you think of eating, sleeping, watching movies?"
"No, I just wanted to breathe"
Master started explaining, "When you want to succeed as hard as you wanted to breathe, then you'll be successful". You do not care about a party, not about anything. Many of us don't want to be successful as we want to sleep. If you want to be successful, you might need to sleep for only 4 hours, 3 hours, or you might need to work 48 hours without a break. Then you will be successful.
If needed, sacrifice what you are to become what you want to!
7 Habits of Highly Effective People
1. எந்நேரமும் துடிப்புடன் இருங்கள்: உங்கள் வாழ்க்கைக்கு நீங்கள்தான் பொறுப்பு என்பதை உணருங்கள்.
2. முடிவை நிர்ணயித்து எந்தச் செயலிலும் இறங்குங்கள்: உங்கள் இலக்கு, லட்சியம் ஆகியவற்றில் தெளிவாக இருங்கள்.
3. முதலில் வந்ததற்கு முதலிடம்: வேலைகளை வரிசைப்படுத்துங்கள். மிக முக்கியக் கவனம் தேவைப்படுபவற்றுக்கு முன்னுரிமை கொடுங்கள்.
4. ஜெயம் நிச்சயம்: எப்போதும் எங்கேயும் ஜெயம் நிச்சயம்தான்.
5. புரிந்துகொள், புரிய வை: மற்றவர்களுக்குக் காது கொடுங்கள். பிறர் கவனத்தைக் கவருங்கள்.
6. இணைந்து இயங்குங்கள்: அணியாகச் செயல்பட்டு அங்கீகாரம் பெறுங்கள்.
7. கூர் தீட்டிக்கொண்டே இருங்கள்: உங்களைப் புதுப்பித்துக்கொண்டே இருங்கள்.
2. முடிவை நிர்ணயித்து எந்தச் செயலிலும் இறங்குங்கள்: உங்கள் இலக்கு, லட்சியம் ஆகியவற்றில் தெளிவாக இருங்கள்.
3. முதலில் வந்ததற்கு முதலிடம்: வேலைகளை வரிசைப்படுத்துங்கள். மிக முக்கியக் கவனம் தேவைப்படுபவற்றுக்கு முன்னுரிமை கொடுங்கள்.
4. ஜெயம் நிச்சயம்: எப்போதும் எங்கேயும் ஜெயம் நிச்சயம்தான்.
5. புரிந்துகொள், புரிய வை: மற்றவர்களுக்குக் காது கொடுங்கள். பிறர் கவனத்தைக் கவருங்கள்.
6. இணைந்து இயங்குங்கள்: அணியாகச் செயல்பட்டு அங்கீகாரம் பெறுங்கள்.
7. கூர் தீட்டிக்கொண்டே இருங்கள்: உங்களைப் புதுப்பித்துக்கொண்டே இருங்கள்.
Believe
There is no secret ingredient. To make something special you just have to believe it's special.
Rise above the pain!
Rise above the pain! You are bigger than your circumstances or your life situation. Your life is not defined by your relationship status, your current job, your bank account, or anything that you have or have not done in the past. Don't listen to any person or automatic negative thoughts that may have conditioned you to think of yourself or your life as a failure.
Don’t ever choose a permanent solution for a temporary problem. You have people who need you and who are counting on you. There is always another day and another way. Rise above the pain, and know that deep inside of you there is another person waiting to break through. You have the ability to rebuild, regroup, recover, and revive!! Breathe life into your dream. Know that you can live a meaningful and purposeful life. You are an unrepeatable miracle, and your dream can live... despite what you feel and inspite of what you're going through right now! You have something special...you have GREATNESS within you!
― Les Brown
Don’t ever choose a permanent solution for a temporary problem. You have people who need you and who are counting on you. There is always another day and another way. Rise above the pain, and know that deep inside of you there is another person waiting to break through. You have the ability to rebuild, regroup, recover, and revive!! Breathe life into your dream. Know that you can live a meaningful and purposeful life. You are an unrepeatable miracle, and your dream can live... despite what you feel and inspite of what you're going through right now! You have something special...you have GREATNESS within you!
― Les Brown
நிச்சயமா. அவரது சக்ஸஸ் ஸ்டோரியே எனக்கு பெரிய இன்ஸ்பிரேஷன். மதுரையில் ரெஜிஸ்டர்ட் மெடிக்கல் பிராக்டீஷனரா இருந்த டாக்டர் என்.எஸ். மோகன்தான் என்னோட மாமா. ஒருமுறை “ நான் உன்னை டாக்டருக்கு படிக்க வைக்கலேன்னா, நீ இப்படி உட்கார்ந்த இடத்துல இருந்துகிட்டு சம்பாதிக்க முடியுமான்னு அவங்க அப்பா ஒரு பேச்சுக்கு கேட்டிருக்கார். அதுல என் மாமாவுக்கு வைராக்கியம் வந்துடுச்சு. அதுக்குப் பிறகு டாக்டர் தொழிலை விட்டுட்டு சென்னையில வந்து, கொஞ்ச கொஞ்சமா உழைச்சு முன்னேறி, கிரானைட் தொழில்ல ஷைன் பண்ணியிருக்கார். பெரிய ஆளா வந்த பிறகு ,ஒரு பென்ஸ் கார் வாங்கிட்டுப் போய் அதை அப்பா முன்னாடி நிறுத்தியிருக்கார். அந்த மாதிரி தன்னை நம்பி ஜெயிச்சவர்.
What lessons can we learn from successful entrepreneurs?
I think entrepreneurs teach people about hard work and dedication because an entrepreneur has a desire to achieve, the push to conquer problems, and give birth to a successful venture. It involves hard work and most are generally workaholics (Everyone who knows Donald Trump knows he is ). Entrepreneurs have a nurturing quality and are willing to take charge of, and watch over a venture until it can stand alone. They have an acceptance of responsibility. They are morally, legally, and mentally accountable for their ventures. Some entrepreneurs may be driven more by altruism than by self-interest. They reward orientation and have a desire to achieve, work hard and take responsibility, but also want to be rewarded handsomely for their efforts; rewards can be in forms other than money, such as recognition and respect. They are optomistic and live by the philosophy that this is the best of times, and that anything is possible. They have an orientation to excellence and often desire to achieve something outstanding that they can be proud of. They have strong organization and are good at bringing together the components (including people) of a venture. They want to make a profit; but the profit serves primarily as a meter to gauge their success and achievement. The demand theory holds that entrepreneurs emerge out of the combination of entrepreneurial opportunities and people who are well-positioned to take advantage of them. Thus, anyone who encounters the right conditions might become an entrepreneur, if they find themselves in a position where they find a valuable problem that they alone can solve.
ஒரு ப்ரெஞ்ச் பொன்மொழியை அடிக்கடி நினைத்துக் கொள்வேன்.
"புத்தகங்களும், நண்பர்களும் குறைவாக இருந்தாலும் சிறந்ததாக இருக்க வேண்டும்."
புத்தகங்களில் சிறந்தவை எது என்பதை வாசிப்பு தெளிவுபடுத்தும். நண்பர்களில் சிறந்தவர்கள் யார் என்பதை அனுபவம்தான் தீர்மானிக்கும். என்னிடமோ சிறப்பான புத்தகங்கள் நிறைய உண்டு. நண்பர்கள் தான் அடிக்கடி பரிசீலிக்கப்படுபவர்களாக இருக்கிறார்கள்
"புத்தகங்களும், நண்பர்களும் குறைவாக இருந்தாலும் சிறந்ததாக இருக்க வேண்டும்."
புத்தகங்களில் சிறந்தவை எது என்பதை வாசிப்பு தெளிவுபடுத்தும். நண்பர்களில் சிறந்தவர்கள் யார் என்பதை அனுபவம்தான் தீர்மானிக்கும். என்னிடமோ சிறப்பான புத்தகங்கள் நிறைய உண்டு. நண்பர்கள் தான் அடிக்கடி பரிசீலிக்கப்படுபவர்களாக இருக்கிறார்கள்
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