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Yesterday I went to one NLP program and I got some good insights about the relationships:
Relationship Rule 1:
Know your needs and speak up for them clearly. A relationship is not a guessing game. Many people, men as well as women, fear stating their needs and, as a result, camouflage them. The result is disappointment at not getting what they want and anger at a partner for not having met their (unstated) needs. Closeness cannot occur without honesty. Your partner is not a mind reader.
Relationship Rule 2:
Listen, truly listen, to your partner's concerns and complaints without judgment. Much of the time, just having someone listen is all we need for solving problems. Plus it opens the door to confiding. And empathy is crucial. Look at things from your partner's perspective as well as your own.
Relationship Rule 3:
If you don't understand or like something your partner is doing, ask about it and why he or she is doing it. Talk and explore, don't assume.
Relationship Rule 1:
Know your needs and speak up for them clearly. A relationship is not a guessing game. Many people, men as well as women, fear stating their needs and, as a result, camouflage them. The result is disappointment at not getting what they want and anger at a partner for not having met their (unstated) needs. Closeness cannot occur without honesty. Your partner is not a mind reader.
Relationship Rule 2:
Listen, truly listen, to your partner's concerns and complaints without judgment. Much of the time, just having someone listen is all we need for solving problems. Plus it opens the door to confiding. And empathy is crucial. Look at things from your partner's perspective as well as your own.
Relationship Rule 3:
If you don't understand or like something your partner is doing, ask about it and why he or she is doing it. Talk and explore, don't assume.
If a hug represented how much I loved you, I would hold you in my arms forever.
I would rather spend one lifetime with you - than face all the ages of this world alone.
You are the only person that can make
my heart beat faster and slower at the same time.
La vita e bella; la vita e amore.
- Life is beautiful; life is love.
I want my first kiss to be long but gentle. Soft but glorious. Most of all...I want it to be with you!
If you're alone, I'll be your shadow. If you want to cry, I'll be your shoulder. If you want a hug, I'll be your pillow. If you need yo be happy, I'll be your smile.
I would rather spend one lifetime with you - than face all the ages of this world alone.
You are the only person that can make
my heart beat faster and slower at the same time.
La vita e bella; la vita e amore.
- Life is beautiful; life is love.
I want my first kiss to be long but gentle. Soft but glorious. Most of all...I want it to be with you!
If you're alone, I'll be your shadow. If you want to cry, I'll be your shoulder. If you want a hug, I'll be your pillow. If you need yo be happy, I'll be your smile.
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