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The world is changed by examples. not by opinions
Many times the wrong train took me to the right place.
It is the possibility of having dream come true that makes life intersting.
You are what you believe yourself to be
The secret of life, though, is to fall seven times and to get up eight times.
Love everybody, but never sell your sword.
Anyone who loves in the expectation of being loved in return is wasting their time.
If it's still in your mind it is worth taking the risk.
Close some doors. not because of pride, incapacity or arrogance, but simply because they no longer lead somewhere.
BE BRAVE, TAKE RISKS NOTHING CAN SUBSTITUTE EXPERIENCE.
Many times the wrong train took me to the right place.
It is the possibility of having dream come true that makes life intersting.
You are what you believe yourself to be
The secret of life, though, is to fall seven times and to get up eight times.
Love everybody, but never sell your sword.
Anyone who loves in the expectation of being loved in return is wasting their time.
If it's still in your mind it is worth taking the risk.
Close some doors. not because of pride, incapacity or arrogance, but simply because they no longer lead somewhere.
BE BRAVE, TAKE RISKS NOTHING CAN SUBSTITUTE EXPERIENCE.
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"All you have in life is your reputation: you may be very rich, but if you lose your good name, then you'll never be happy. The thought will always lurk at the back of your mind that people don't trust you."
"My interest in life comes from setting myself huge, apparently unachievable challenges and trying to rise above them."
"There are no rules. You don't learn to walk by following rules. You learn by doing, and by falling over, and it's because you fall over that you learn to save yourself from falling over."
"I am the captain of my ship and master of my fate. I believe in myself. I believe in the hands that work, in the brains that think, and in the hearts that love." - R.B
"My interest in life comes from setting myself huge, apparently unachievable challenges and trying to rise above them."
"There are no rules. You don't learn to walk by following rules. You learn by doing, and by falling over, and it's because you fall over that you learn to save yourself from falling over."
"I am the captain of my ship and master of my fate. I believe in myself. I believe in the hands that work, in the brains that think, and in the hearts that love." - R.B
BEST 100 POSITIVE QUOTES EVER - DON'T SETTLE
When
someone says you can't do it, you gotta secretly thank them. Let's face it,
proving them wrong is a huge motivator
By
working faithfully eight hours a day you may eventually get to be boss and work
twelve hours a day. — Robert Frost
If
you can hold it in your head, you can hold it in your hand.
Its
better to be a lion for a day than a sheep all your life
If
you want to be rich, simply serve more people.
There
are fast ideas and slow ideas, just as there are fast trains and slow trains.
When it comes to money, most people are on the slow train looking out the
window watching the fast train pass them by. If you want to become rich
quickly, your plan must include fast ideas.
Find
the game where you can win, and then commit your life to playing it; and play
to win.
The
richest people in the world build networks; everyone else is trained to look
for work.
Always
remember that it's not money that will make you rich, it's business skills.
The
moment you make passive income and portfolio income a part of your life, your
life
will
change. Those words will become flesh
The
poor, the unsuccessful, the unhappy, the unhealthy are the ones who use the
word tomorrow the most.
It's
not what you say out of your mouth that determines your life, it's what you whisper
to yourself that has the most power.
Thinking
is hard work. When you are forced to think, you expand your mental capacity.
When you expand your mental capacity, your wealth increases.
The
size of your success is measured by the strength of your desire; the size of
your dream; and how you handle disappointment along the way.
Start
small and dream big.
The
richest people in the world build networks; everyone else is trained to look
for work.
If
you want to be rich, you need to develop your vision. You must be standing on
the edge of time gazing into the future.
you're
life may suck because you say it sucks, and you're not
willing to do anything to make your life better, maybe because you took a risk
and failed. don't let that stop you, go out and do something !
Also
the guy who got fired from his own company, only to return 12 years
later to transformed the world. - Steve Jobsdropped out of college and was fired from his own company....steve jobs.
chance to succeed= risk
am
nt giving up, i knw i can make it, am gonna make it, i must make it...i stand
in d face of ma challenges n say am an overcomer....i must
succeed. I BELIVE IN MYSELF.
Failure, the key to success.
The
problem's in the life are due to man's ignore and lack of discipline.
The
world is a reflection of yourself.
When
Olympic decathlon gold medalist Bruce Jenner asked a roomful of Olympic
hopefuls if they had a list of written goals, every one raised their hands.
When he asked how many of them had that list with them right that moment, only
one person raised their hand. That person was Dan O’Brien. And it was Dan
O’Brien who went on to win the gold medal in the decathlon at the 1996 Olympics
in Atlanta
while
other guys are sleep, I m working
while
other guys are eating, I m working
if
u r not skilled, u failed
Life
is as difficult as you make it ....we all have our own issues ...the solution
is within us....we only need to find it!
I
can truly turn things around
I
change my mindeset and confidence, change myselfe, becoming more.
I began to searchfor role models, those who
could create change with lightning – like speed.
Come
what may, I will never be tired of racing
You
must remain focused on your journey to greatness
Don't
be pushed by your problems. Be led by your dreams
Don't
limit your challenges - challenge your limits
As
long as you're going to be thinking anyway, think big.
Politeness
matters. Punctuality counts. Mastery wins. Period.
You
can't win if you don't even start.
Make
your faith larger than your fears. And your dreams bigger than your doubts
There's
not even one of us who cannot dramatically rise up above our circumstances via
rising up against our fears.
Stop
managing your time. Start managing your focus.
Shift
from "This can't be done" to "I can do this...and I'm getting it
done NOW."
Be
good to your body so it'll be great to your life
Start
planning out your Ideal 2014 on ONE page today. Clarity is Power
All
great works require daily practice. And endless patience.
Clear
daily/weekly/monthly goals=your future coming to get you.
Today's
a superb day to start a new life.
When
a giant opportunity shows up, don't overanalyze it. Jump all over it.
“People
are not lazy, they simply have impotent goals..that is..goals that do not
inspire them.”
“If
you raise your standards but don’t really believe you can meet them, you’ve
already sabotaged yourself. You won’t even try; you’ll be lacking the sense of
certainty that allows you to tap the deepest capacity that’s within you… Our
beliefs are like unquestioned commands, telling us how things are, what’s
possible and impossible and what we can and can not do. They shape every
action, every thought and every feeling that we experience. As a result,
changing our belief systems is central to making any real and lasting change in
our lives.” ~ Anthony Robbins
All
successful people learn that success is buried on the other side of
frustration. Unfortunately, some people don’t get to the other side… They allow
frustration to keep them from taking the necessary actions that would support
them in achieving their desire. You get through this roadblock by plowing
through frustration, taking each setback as feedback you can learn from, and
pushing ahead.” ~ Anthony Robbins
“The
most powerful way to control your focus is through the use of questions.” ~
Anthony Robbins
You
see, in life, lots of people know what to do, but few people actually do what
they know. Knowing is not enough! You must take action.” ~ Anthony Robbins
“Whatever
happens, take responsibility.” ~
“What
we can or cannot do, what we consider possible or impossible, is rarely a
function of our true capability. It is more likely a function of our beliefs
about who we are.” ~ Anthony Robbins
We
will act consistently with our view of who we truly are, whether that view is
accurate or not.”
“We
can change our lives. We can do, have, and be exactly what we wish.” ~ Anthony
Robbins
Using
the power of decision gives you the capacity to get past any excuse to change
any and every part of your life in an instant.”
“Live
life fully while you're here. Experience everything. Take care of yourself and
your friends. Have fun, be crazy, be weird. Go out and screw up! You're going
to anyway, so you might as well enjoy the process. Take the opportunity to
learn from your mistakes: find the cause of your problem and eliminate it.
Don't try to be perfect; just be an excellent example of being human.”
“If
you can't you must, and if you must you can.”
“The
path to success is to take massive, determined action.”
“Every
problem is a gift - without problems we would not grow.”
―
Anthony Robbins
“In
essence, if we want to direct our lives, we must take control of our consistent
actions. It's not what we do once in a while that shapes our lives, but what we
do consistently.”
“I
believe life is constantly testing us for our level of commitment, and life's
greatest
rewards are reserved for those who demonstrate a never-ending
commitment
to act until they achieve. This level of resolve can move mountains, but it
must be constant and consistent. As simplistic as this may
sound,
it is still the common denominator separating those who live their
dreams
from those who live in regret.”
Why
live an ordinary life, when you can live an extraordinary one.”
When
someone says you can't do it, you gotta secretly thank them. Let's face it,
proving them wrong is a huge motivator
By
working faithfully eight hours a day you may eventually get to be boss and work
twelve hours a day. — Robert Frost
If
you can hold it in your head, you can hold it in your hand.
Its
better to be a lion for a day than a sheep all your life
The
challenge of leadership is to have enough power and vision to be able to
project in advance what outcome will result from your actions, large and small.
If
we surround ourselves with people who are successful, who are forward-moving,
who are positive, who are focused on producing results, who support us, it will
challenge us to be more and do more and share more. If you can surround
yourself with people who will never let you settle for less than you can be,
you have the greatest gift that anyone can hope for.
STEVE JOBS:
He
didn't allow other people to have second-rate standard
Simplicity
To
take chances, work hard, and never compromise on yourself.
Perfectionism
I'll
show you what I mean
Next,
that means future
I
don't think much about my time of life. I just get up in the morning and it's a
new day. Somebody told me when I was 17 to live each day as if it were my last,
and that one day I'd be right. I am at a stage where I don't have to do things
just to get by. But then I've always been that way because I've never really
cared about money that much. I guess what I'm trying to say is that I feel the
same way now as I felt when I was 17.
I
think if you do something and it turns out pretty good, then you should go do
something else wonderful, not dwell on it for too long. Just figure out what’s
next
Don't
settle.
“What
ever you do, do it well. Do it so well that when people see you do it they will
want to come back and see you do it again and they will want to bring others
and show them how well you do what you do.”
Some
days we wake up feeling full of positive energy but then we go and allow one
negative comment or criticism to bring us down. It's pretty easy to feel bad
and lose focus. It takes a lot of strength to stay unshaken and remain
positive.
Even
in our weakest moments, we're all capable of being much stronger than we will
let ourselves believe.
"Remember,
the thoughts that you think and the statements you make regarding yourself
determine your mental attitude. If you have a worthwhile objective, find the
one reason why you can achieve it rather than hundreds of reasons why you
can't."
You
are in charge of you. Don't waste time blaming others, be accountable and
experience the freedom that comes with that accountability.
Marriage is extremely difficult and unnatural. You have to constantly work on yourself. It’s almost impossible to be head over heels in love with someone, every day, forever. You fight, you make up, you change, you grow, you fight, you make up, you change, you adjust and then eventually you are too old to give a shit and then you die.
There is no such thing as the perfect man or woman, it’s a myth. Even if you were to find the perfect someone, you would be over him or her and bored in a matter of time - these are the facts.
there IS something special about sharing a lifetime with only one person. Maybe it’s time for our generation to start from scratch with someone, rather than go into a relationship expecting compatibility and perfection. Grow together; it’s a gamble on both sides.
There is no such thing as the perfect man or woman, it’s a myth. Even if you were to find the perfect someone, you would be over him or her and bored in a matter of time - these are the facts.
there IS something special about sharing a lifetime with only one person. Maybe it’s time for our generation to start from scratch with someone, rather than go into a relationship expecting compatibility and perfection. Grow together; it’s a gamble on both sides.
I hate dominance....
She is my friend in the college where I am doing my MBA in distance. Due to some privacy i don't wanna say her name here. We are good friends for more than a year and she is like my sister.
I saw her last few classes, she wasn't good while seeing her face. I asked what happened?
She said my sister got engagement. I said then its a good news only right.
She replied yes but... I asked what?
She asked me one question. If you are going to marry a girl. Will you ask her to don't go for a job? I said its totally its her own wish and her interest based on it.
So I said no.
She asked me again why you are saying NO?
I said like see.. If the girl is educated and she is going to the job in the sense, she will feel like she is not depend on me and she will gain the confidence on herself.
Also until finishing the studies she unable to see the outer world like how it is? So she gotta only chance to face the world and enjoy the world on her own through the job only.
She said perfect. This is the one I am expecting for me and my sister. My sister going to complete her Masters and she got selected for training in Bangalore. But my dad picked one guy for him, he and his family saying like she don't go for any job.
I asked one question to her: What your sister said? As per my parents wish she is saying.
I said one thing, don't mistake me. Your dad & Your sister is the filtered idiot here.
She said Yes I agree.
Why in the sense?
Your dad:
Don't know what is the real happiness he will give if she will go for that job?
He is not believing the outer world like job thing...etc
Finally the real truth is he is not believing your sister 100% if he is believing her he will give a chance for her dream.
Your sister:
She is acting and spoiling her dream.
Why she studied master better marry after U.G itself na?
She wasted 2 years totally due to this master?
The Guy who saw your sister:
If he is saying don't go for a job in the sense, its reflecting his attitude.
Here itself he started dominating your sister and how it will work in the future?
He is not seeing the value of her education here.
Anyway your sister chapter over, don't cry for her. Because she got engagement.
This is the lesson for you through your sister. Speak Boldly I will go to the job to the guy whom you are going to see in the future. If you have a dream to go the job or else keep your mouth shut to your dad and get marry to the person.
SHE SAID FINALLY I WILL SPEAK FIRST TO MY DAD BOLDLY, THEN I WILL SPEAK TO THAT GUY.
IF THE GIRL IS EDUCATED AND STAND ON HER OWN, ITS PURELY SPREAD TO THE FAMILY.
GUYS: COME ON AND SUPPORT THE GIRL.
I saw her last few classes, she wasn't good while seeing her face. I asked what happened?
She said my sister got engagement. I said then its a good news only right.
She replied yes but... I asked what?
She asked me one question. If you are going to marry a girl. Will you ask her to don't go for a job? I said its totally its her own wish and her interest based on it.
So I said no.
She asked me again why you are saying NO?
I said like see.. If the girl is educated and she is going to the job in the sense, she will feel like she is not depend on me and she will gain the confidence on herself.
Also until finishing the studies she unable to see the outer world like how it is? So she gotta only chance to face the world and enjoy the world on her own through the job only.
She said perfect. This is the one I am expecting for me and my sister. My sister going to complete her Masters and she got selected for training in Bangalore. But my dad picked one guy for him, he and his family saying like she don't go for any job.
I asked one question to her: What your sister said? As per my parents wish she is saying.
I said one thing, don't mistake me. Your dad & Your sister is the filtered idiot here.
She said Yes I agree.
Why in the sense?
Your dad:
Don't know what is the real happiness he will give if she will go for that job?
He is not believing the outer world like job thing...etc
Finally the real truth is he is not believing your sister 100% if he is believing her he will give a chance for her dream.
Your sister:
She is acting and spoiling her dream.
Why she studied master better marry after U.G itself na?
She wasted 2 years totally due to this master?
The Guy who saw your sister:
If he is saying don't go for a job in the sense, its reflecting his attitude.
Here itself he started dominating your sister and how it will work in the future?
He is not seeing the value of her education here.
Anyway your sister chapter over, don't cry for her. Because she got engagement.
This is the lesson for you through your sister. Speak Boldly I will go to the job to the guy whom you are going to see in the future. If you have a dream to go the job or else keep your mouth shut to your dad and get marry to the person.
SHE SAID FINALLY I WILL SPEAK FIRST TO MY DAD BOLDLY, THEN I WILL SPEAK TO THAT GUY.
IF THE GIRL IS EDUCATED AND STAND ON HER OWN, ITS PURELY SPREAD TO THE FAMILY.
GUYS: COME ON AND SUPPORT THE GIRL.
Now Watching alaipyuthey movie at 12.30 A.M .. when ever I watched this move I love to fall in love the girl who seems like a heroine (straightforward, simple, no act & pure love) in this movie..
I love my wife and I don't know where she is. I am dedicating this movie to her. I wish and pray to god and my wife should be like this heroine.. not in the beauty but character.
I love my wife and I don't know where she is. I am dedicating this movie to her. I wish and pray to god and my wife should be like this heroine.. not in the beauty but character.
28 Feb 2014
Don't be disappointed if people refuse to help you. Remember the words of Einstein:
I am thankful to all those who said no. Because of them I did it myself.
Close some doors not because of pride, incapactiy or arrogance, but simply because they no longer lead somewhere.
Fake People have an image to maintain. Real people just don't care.
My strength did not come from lifting weights. My strength came from lifting myself up when I was knocked down.
I am thankful to all those who said no. Because of them I did it myself.
Close some doors not because of pride, incapactiy or arrogance, but simply because they no longer lead somewhere.
Fake People have an image to maintain. Real people just don't care.
My strength did not come from lifting weights. My strength came from lifting myself up when I was knocked down.
Believing that you are the best might look like over confidence….some times it works & having that blind faith will help you move a step forward….
People go through their whole lives chasing everything in the material world, and they fail to discover the greatest treasure of all, which is within them. Shut your eyes to the outside world. Direct your thoughts and words to the inside of you. The Master within you is the key to all the treasures in the world.
> thesecret
> thesecret
To My Wife....
100 ways to love you:
1. Communicate with her; never close her out.
2. Regard her as important.
3. Do everything you can to understand her feelings.
4. Be interested in her friends.
5. Ask her opinion frequently.
6. Value what she says.
7. Let her feel your approval and affection.
8. Protect her on a daily basis.
9. Be gentle and tender with her.
10. Develop a sense of humor.
11. Avoid sudden major changes without discussion and without giving her time to adjust.
12. Learn to respond openly and verbally when she wants to communicate.
13. Comfort her when she’s down emotionally. Put your arms around her & hold her.
14. Be interested in what she feels is important in life.
15. Correct her gently and tenderly.
16. Allow her to teach you without putting up your defenses.
17. Make special time available to her and your children.
18. Be trustworthy.
19. Compliment her often.
20. Be creative when you express your love, either in words or actions.
21. Have specific family goals for each year.
22. Let her buy things she considers necessary.
23. Be forgiving when she offends you.
24. Show her you need her.
25. Accept her the way she is; discover her uniqueness as special.
26. Admit your mistakes; don’t be afraid to be humble.
27. Defend her to others.
28. Allow your wife to fail; discuss what went wrong after you’ve comforted her.
29. Rub her feet or neck after a hard day.
31. Go on romantic outings.
32. Write her a letter occasionally, telling her how much you love her.
33. Surprise her with a card or flowers.
34. Express how proud you are of her.
35. Tell her how much you appreciate her.
36. Give advice in a loving way when she asks for it.
37. Lead your family in their spiritual relationship with God.
38. Prefer her to others.
39. Don’t expect her to enjoy god’s best in life.
40. Pray for her to enjoy God’s best in life.
41. Take time to notice what she has done for you and the family.
42. Brag about her to other people behind her back.
43. Share your thoughts and feelings with her.
44. Tell her about your job, if she’s interested.
45. Take time to see how she spends her day, at work or at home.
46. Take care of the kids before dinner.
47. Learn to enjoy what she enjoys.
48. Help straighten up the house before mealtime.
49. Let her take a bubble bath while you do the dishes.
50. Understand her physical limitations if you have several children.
51. Discipline the children in love, not anger.
52. Help her finish her goals, hobbies or education.
53. Treat her as if God had stamped on her forehead, “Handle with Care”.
54. Get rid of habits that annoy her.
55. Be gentle and thoughtful to her relatives.
56. Don’t compare her relatives with yours in a negative way.
57. Thank her for things she has done without expecting anything in return.
58. Don’t expect a band to play whenever you help with the housecleaning.
59. Make sure she understands everything you’re planning to do.
60. Do little things for her—an unexpected kiss, coffee in bed.
61. Treat her as an intellectual equal.
62. Find out if she wants to be treated as physically weaker.
63. Discover her fears in life.
64. See what you can do to eliminate those fears.
65. Discover her sexual needs.
66. Ask if she wants to discuss how you can meet her sexual needs.
67. Find out what makes her insecure.
68. Plan your future together.
69. Don’t quarrel over words, but try to find hidden meanings.
70. Practice common courtesies like holding the door for her, pouring her coffee.
71. Ask her if you offend her sexually in any way.
72. Ask if she’s jealous of anyone.
73. See if she’s uncomfortable about the way money is spent.
74. Take her on dates now and then.
75. Hold her hand in public.
76. Put your arm around her in front of friends.
77. Tell her you love her often.
78. Remember anniversaries, birthdays, and other special occasions.
79. Learn to enjoy shopping.
80. Teach her to hunt and fish or whatever you enjoy doing.
81. Give her a special gift from time to time.
82. Share the responsibilities around the house.
83. Don’t belittle her feminine characteristics.
84. Let her express herself freely, without fear of being called stupid or illogical.
85. Carefully choose your words, especially when angry.
86. Don’t criticize her in front of other.
87. Don’t let her see you become excited about the physical features of another woman.
88. Be sensitive to other people.
89. Let your family know you want to spend special time with them.
90. Fix dinner for her from time to time.
91. Be sympathetic when she’s sick.
92. Call her when you’re going to be late.
93. Don’t disagree with her in front of the children.
94. Take her out to dinner and for weekend getaways.
95. Do the “little things” she needs from time to time.
96. Give her special time alone with her friends.
97. Buy her what she considers an intimate gift.
98. Read a book she recommends to you.
99. Give her engraved plaque assuring her of your lasting love.
100. Write her a poem about how special she is.
♥ You fill up my senses...
Like a night in a forest... ♥
I belong with you
You belong with me,
You're my baby...
You are a beautiful soul.. Amazing in your own way..
It may be your eyes, your smile, your laugh, your inner glow...
Everyone one of us has a quality that someone else admires....
" You Are Special My baby.."
The power of a gun can kill
and the power of Fire can Burn
The power of wind can chill
and the power of the mind can learn
The power of anger can rage
inside until it tears you apart
But the Power of a Smile
especially yours can heal a frozen Heart...
How can i arrange my words to say....
How special U are to me...
U are the themes of my life...
U are the beloved prince....
U are my love
U are in my memories
U are in my all acceptance.
Every single beat of my heart is just for U
Every breath i inhales, it's just for U....
All this is because I LOVE U MY baby!!
YoU mAy Be s0mEtHiNg LiTtLe In ThIs BiG w0rLd
BuT y0u aRe My EvErYtHiNg In My LiTtLE w0rLd...♥
The Time when I am going to spend With You...
Is The Most Beautiful Time Of My Life... ♥
I'll be your platinum, I'll be your silver, I'll be your gold
As long as you love, love, love, love me
As long as you love, love, love, love me
As long as you love, love, love, love me...
My dreams are close my heart so told ur the one I need you… My Life is here and my mind is there thinking of you being close and holding you… Things change, dreams change but the one who is strong will never fail! - P.S I LOVE YOU!!
One look
One smile
One touch
One embrace
One kiss
One love
Two people
Two minds
Two souls
Two destinies
One road
One journey
One ending
Together.
Love is the condition in which the happiness of another person is essential to your own.
It's not the song that makes you emotional. It's the person that comes to your mind when you hear it . . . I wanna HUG♥....
I would never let your smile go away,
I'll always be with you on every way,
No matter how hard it is to stand,
I'll keep you happy and hold your hand,
There is nothing that can make us apart,
coz I'll always keep you close to my heart..!!
When you're close it feels so good, I would like to stay like this forever, If there was a way I definitely would, I wish we always stay together, When I wake up I want you to be there, and I just want to stay close to you, I know you will always love and care, I love you now and I'll always do..!
True Love Is When...
Everything in the world is going wrong...
And By Looking To That Special Person...
Everything In The World Is Right Again...???
Have you ever had a moment when you’re with the one person in the world you want to be with and the wind is blowing through your hair and the song that just describes your entire soul happens to come on and then the person you happen to want to be with happens to love the same song and suddenly you realize you’re listening to it together and no matter how crazy your life has gotten, there’s this one moment, this perfect moment where you could just say that no matter what happens nothing can take this moment away from me…
63 Ways to Make Her Feel Special
1. Regularly express to her that you need and value her.
2. Do things that make you laugh together.
3. Compliment her for her special qualities and be specific.
4. Put your arms around her when she needs comfort.
5. Speak respectfully, don’t demean her or hurt her feelings.
6. Give her time to be with her friends.
7. Take regular walks hand-in-hand.
8. Be enthusiastic over things that she’s excited about.
9. Do something you think she wants done before she asks.
10. Discuss changes with her first before you make them.
11. Show interest in the relationship and the things she values.
12. Allow her to teach you things without being defensive.
13. Let go of the small stuff.
14. Be a good listener and value what she says.
15. Get away from the routine to spend time together.
16. Go shopping with her without watching the clock.
17. Make her breakfast and clean up afterward.
18. Set specific relationship goals to achieve together.
19. Act like you are partners in all areas life.
20. Don’t take her for granted, always be polite.
21. Admit your mistakes, and ask for forgiveness.
22. Defend her to others, especially to your family.
23. Don’t belittle her intelligence.
24. Scratch her back, rub her feet, and massage her neck.
25. Be especially helpful when she is not feeling well.
26. When she asks how your day went, give her details.
27. Never argue over money, it will damage your relationship.
28. Don’t embarrass her in front of others.
29. Make eye contact when the two of you are talking.
30. Show that you prefer her company over all others.
31. Give her your full attention whenever possible.
32. When she expresses her feelings listen with your heart.
33. Never flirt with another woman.
34. Brag about her and your relationship to others.
35. Surprise her with a card and flowers.
36. Call her when you know you are going to be late.
37. Give her your undivided attention when she’s talking.
38. Never compare her unfavorably with others.
39. Take care of yourself, It shows you care.
40. Be supportive. Help her to achieve her goals.
41. Run errands without complaining.
42. Sit close to her, even when you’re just watching TV.
43. Include her when you make plans.
44. Do things that make her feel cherished as a woman.
45. Build trust into your relationship.
46. Surprise her with a 15+ second kiss.
47. Stay in good of shape so she’s proud to be with you.
48. Be kinder to her than you are to strangers.
49. Make sure she feels valued above everyone else.
50. Continue to court her and date her.
51. Show affection for her in front of friends.
52. Hold her close when she is hurt or discouraged.
53. Surprise her with an unexpected gift.
54. Don’t forget to hold her hand in public.
55. Honor her and support her dignity.
56. Don’t dishonor her by eyeballing other women.
57. Fix dinner for her sometimes.
58. Be sympathetic when she’s feeling down.
59. Don’t ignore the small things that bother her.
60. Do things around the house that she wants done.
61. Tell her and show her that you love her every day.
62. When you’re away call or email often.
63. Show her affection without sexual intentions.
Little Ways A Man Can Keep His Partner's Love Tank Full
1. Upon returning home, find her first before doing anything else and give her a hug.
2. Ask her specific questions about her day that indicate an awareness of what she was planning to do.
(e.g., "How did your day go? Did you have fun at the mall?")
3. Pratice listening and asking questions.
4. Resist the temptations to solve her problems.
5. Give her twenty minutes of unsolicited, quality attention (don't read the newspaper or be distracted by anything else during this time).
6. Bring her cut flowers as a surprise as well as on special occasions.
7. Plan a date several days in advance, rather than waiting for Friday night and asking her what she wants to do.
8. If she generally makes dinner or if it is her turn and she seems tired or really busy, offer to make dinner.
9. Compliment her on how she looks.
10. Validate her feelings when she is upset.
11. Offer to help her when she is tired.
12. Schedule extra time when traveling so that she doesn't have to rush.
13. When you are going to be late, call her and let her know.
14. When she asks for support, say yes or no without making her wrong for asking.
15. Whenever her feelings have been hurt, give her some empathy and tell her "I'm sorry you feel hurt." Then be silent; let her feel your understanding of her hurt. Don't offer solutions or explanations why her hurt is not your fault.
16. Whenever you need to pull away, let her know you will be back or that you need some time to think about things.
17. When you've cooled off and you come back, talk about what was bothering you in a respectful, nonblaming way, so she doesn't imagine the worst.
18. Offer to build a fire in wintertime.
19. When she talks to you, put down the magazine or turn off the TV and give her your full attention.
20. If she usually washes the dishes, occasionally offer to wash the dishes, especially if she is tired that day.
21. Notice when she is upset or tired and ask what she has to do. Then offer to help by doing a few of her "to do" items.
22. When going out, ask if there is anything she wants you to pick up at the store, and remember to pick it up.
23. Let her know when you are planning to take a nap or leave.
24. Give her four hugs a day.
25. Call her from work to ask how she is or to share somehing exciting or to tell her "I love you."
26. Tell her "I love you" at least a couple of times every day.
27. Make the bed and clean up the bedroom.
28. If she washes your socks, turn your socks right side out so she doesn't have to.
29. Notice when the trash is full, and offer to empty it.
30. When you are out of town, call to leave a telephone number when you can be reached an to let her know you arrived safely.
31. Wash her car.
32. Wash your car and clean up the interior before a date with her.
33. Wash before having sex or put on a cologne if she likes that.
34. Take her side when she is upset with someone.
35. Offer to give her a back or neck or foot massage (or all three).
36. Make a point of cuddling or being affectionate soemtimes without being sexual.
37. Be patient whe she is sharing. Don't look at your watch.
38. Don't flick the remote control to different chanels when she is watching TV with you.
39. Display affection in public.
40. When holding hands don't let your hand go limp.
41. Learn her favorite drinks so you can offer her a choice of the ones that you know she already likes.
42. Suggest different restaurants for going out; don't put the burden of figuring out where to go on her.
43. Get season tickets for the theater, symphony, opera, ballet, or some other type of some other type of performance she likes.
44. Create occasions when you both can dress up.
45. Be understanding when she is late or decides to change her outfit.
46. Pay more attention to her than to others in public.
47. Make her more important than the children. Let the children see her first and foremost.
48. Buy her little presents- like a small box of chocolates or perfume.
49. Buy her an outfit (take a picture of your partner along with her sizes to the store and let them help you select it).
50. Take pictures of her on special occasions.
51. Take short romantic getaways.
52. Let her see that you carry a picture of her in your wallet and update it for time to time.
53. When staying in a hotel, have them prepare the room with something special, like a bottle of champagne or sparkling apple juice or flowers.
54. Write a note or make a sign on special occasions such as anniversairies and birthdays.
55. Offer to drive the car on long trips.
56. Drive slowly and safety, respecting her preferences. After all, she is sitting powerless in the front seat.
57. Notice how she is feeling and comment on it- "You look happy today" or "You look tired"- and then ask a question like "How was your day?"
58. When taking her out, study in advance the directions so that she does not have to feel reponsible to navigate.
59. Take her dancing or take dancing lessons together.
60. Surprise her with a love note or poem.
61. Treat her in ways you did at the begging of the relationship.
62. Offer to fix something around the house. Say "What needs to fixed around here? I have some extra time." Don't take on more than you can do.
63. Offer to sharpen her knives in the kitchen.
64. Buy some good SuperGlue to fix things that are broken.
65. Offer to change light bulbs as soon as they go out.
66. Help with recycling the trash.
67. Read out loud or cut out sections of the newspaper that would interest her.
68. Write out neatly any phone messages you make take for her.
69. Keep the bathroom floor clean and dry it after taking a shower.
70. Open the door for her.
71. Offer to carry the groceries.
72. Offer to carry heavy boxes for her.
73. On trips, handle the luggage and be responsible for packing it in the car.
74. If she washes the dishes or it is her turn, offer to help scrub pots or other difficult tasks.
75. Make a "to fix" list and leave it in the kitchen. When you have extra time do something on that list for her. Don't let it get out too long.
76. When she prepare a meal, compliment her cooking.
77. When listening to her talk, use eye contact.
78. Touch her with your hand sometimes when you talk to her.
79. Show interest in what she does during the day, in the books she reads and the people she relates to.
80. When listening to her, reassure her that you are interested by making little noises like as ha, uh-huh, oh, mmhuh, hmmmm.
81. Ask her how she is feeling.
82. If she has been sick in some way, ask for an update and ask how she is doing or feeling.
83. If she is tired offer to make her some tea.
84. Get ready to go to sleep together and get in bed at the same time.
85. Give her a kiss and say ggod-bye when you leave.
86. Laugh at her jokes and humor.
87. Verbally say thank you when she does things for you.
88. Notice when she gets her hair done and give her a reassuring compliment.
89. Create special time to be alone to gether.
90. Don't answer the phone at intimate moments or if she is sharing vulnerable feelings.
91. Go bicycling to gether, even if it's just a short ride.
92. Organize and prepare a picnic. (Remember to bring to picnic cloth.)
93. If she handles the laundry, bring the clothes to the cleaners or offer to do the wash.
94. Take her for a walk without the children.
95. Negotiate in a maner that shows her that you want her to get what she wants and you also want what you want. Be caring, but don't be a martyr.
96. Let her know that you missed her when you went away.
97. Bring home her favorite pie or dessert.
98. If she normally shop for the food, offer to do the food shopping.
99. Eat lightly on romantic occasions so that you don't become stuffed and tired later.
100. Ask her to add her thoughts to this list.
101. Leave the bathroom seat down.
1. Communicate with her; never close her out.
2. Regard her as important.
3. Do everything you can to understand her feelings.
4. Be interested in her friends.
5. Ask her opinion frequently.
6. Value what she says.
7. Let her feel your approval and affection.
8. Protect her on a daily basis.
9. Be gentle and tender with her.
10. Develop a sense of humor.
11. Avoid sudden major changes without discussion and without giving her time to adjust.
12. Learn to respond openly and verbally when she wants to communicate.
13. Comfort her when she’s down emotionally. Put your arms around her & hold her.
14. Be interested in what she feels is important in life.
15. Correct her gently and tenderly.
16. Allow her to teach you without putting up your defenses.
17. Make special time available to her and your children.
18. Be trustworthy.
19. Compliment her often.
20. Be creative when you express your love, either in words or actions.
21. Have specific family goals for each year.
22. Let her buy things she considers necessary.
23. Be forgiving when she offends you.
24. Show her you need her.
25. Accept her the way she is; discover her uniqueness as special.
26. Admit your mistakes; don’t be afraid to be humble.
27. Defend her to others.
28. Allow your wife to fail; discuss what went wrong after you’ve comforted her.
29. Rub her feet or neck after a hard day.
31. Go on romantic outings.
32. Write her a letter occasionally, telling her how much you love her.
33. Surprise her with a card or flowers.
34. Express how proud you are of her.
35. Tell her how much you appreciate her.
36. Give advice in a loving way when she asks for it.
37. Lead your family in their spiritual relationship with God.
38. Prefer her to others.
39. Don’t expect her to enjoy god’s best in life.
40. Pray for her to enjoy God’s best in life.
41. Take time to notice what she has done for you and the family.
42. Brag about her to other people behind her back.
43. Share your thoughts and feelings with her.
44. Tell her about your job, if she’s interested.
45. Take time to see how she spends her day, at work or at home.
46. Take care of the kids before dinner.
47. Learn to enjoy what she enjoys.
48. Help straighten up the house before mealtime.
49. Let her take a bubble bath while you do the dishes.
50. Understand her physical limitations if you have several children.
51. Discipline the children in love, not anger.
52. Help her finish her goals, hobbies or education.
53. Treat her as if God had stamped on her forehead, “Handle with Care”.
54. Get rid of habits that annoy her.
55. Be gentle and thoughtful to her relatives.
56. Don’t compare her relatives with yours in a negative way.
57. Thank her for things she has done without expecting anything in return.
58. Don’t expect a band to play whenever you help with the housecleaning.
59. Make sure she understands everything you’re planning to do.
60. Do little things for her—an unexpected kiss, coffee in bed.
61. Treat her as an intellectual equal.
62. Find out if she wants to be treated as physically weaker.
63. Discover her fears in life.
64. See what you can do to eliminate those fears.
65. Discover her sexual needs.
66. Ask if she wants to discuss how you can meet her sexual needs.
67. Find out what makes her insecure.
68. Plan your future together.
69. Don’t quarrel over words, but try to find hidden meanings.
70. Practice common courtesies like holding the door for her, pouring her coffee.
71. Ask her if you offend her sexually in any way.
72. Ask if she’s jealous of anyone.
73. See if she’s uncomfortable about the way money is spent.
74. Take her on dates now and then.
75. Hold her hand in public.
76. Put your arm around her in front of friends.
77. Tell her you love her often.
78. Remember anniversaries, birthdays, and other special occasions.
79. Learn to enjoy shopping.
80. Teach her to hunt and fish or whatever you enjoy doing.
81. Give her a special gift from time to time.
82. Share the responsibilities around the house.
83. Don’t belittle her feminine characteristics.
84. Let her express herself freely, without fear of being called stupid or illogical.
85. Carefully choose your words, especially when angry.
86. Don’t criticize her in front of other.
87. Don’t let her see you become excited about the physical features of another woman.
88. Be sensitive to other people.
89. Let your family know you want to spend special time with them.
90. Fix dinner for her from time to time.
91. Be sympathetic when she’s sick.
92. Call her when you’re going to be late.
93. Don’t disagree with her in front of the children.
94. Take her out to dinner and for weekend getaways.
95. Do the “little things” she needs from time to time.
96. Give her special time alone with her friends.
97. Buy her what she considers an intimate gift.
98. Read a book she recommends to you.
99. Give her engraved plaque assuring her of your lasting love.
100. Write her a poem about how special she is.
♥ You fill up my senses...
Like a night in a forest... ♥
I belong with you
You belong with me,
You're my baby...
You are a beautiful soul.. Amazing in your own way..
It may be your eyes, your smile, your laugh, your inner glow...
Everyone one of us has a quality that someone else admires....
" You Are Special My baby.."
The power of a gun can kill
and the power of Fire can Burn
The power of wind can chill
and the power of the mind can learn
The power of anger can rage
inside until it tears you apart
But the Power of a Smile
especially yours can heal a frozen Heart...
How can i arrange my words to say....
How special U are to me...
U are the themes of my life...
U are the beloved prince....
U are my love
U are in my memories
U are in my all acceptance.
Every single beat of my heart is just for U
Every breath i inhales, it's just for U....
All this is because I LOVE U MY baby!!
YoU mAy Be s0mEtHiNg LiTtLe In ThIs BiG w0rLd
BuT y0u aRe My EvErYtHiNg In My LiTtLE w0rLd...♥
The Time when I am going to spend With You...
Is The Most Beautiful Time Of My Life... ♥
I'll be your platinum, I'll be your silver, I'll be your gold
As long as you love, love, love, love me
As long as you love, love, love, love me
As long as you love, love, love, love me...
My dreams are close my heart so told ur the one I need you… My Life is here and my mind is there thinking of you being close and holding you… Things change, dreams change but the one who is strong will never fail! - P.S I LOVE YOU!!
One look
One smile
One touch
One embrace
One kiss
One love
Two people
Two minds
Two souls
Two destinies
One road
One journey
One ending
Together.
Love is the condition in which the happiness of another person is essential to your own.
It's not the song that makes you emotional. It's the person that comes to your mind when you hear it . . . I wanna HUG♥....
I would never let your smile go away,
I'll always be with you on every way,
No matter how hard it is to stand,
I'll keep you happy and hold your hand,
There is nothing that can make us apart,
coz I'll always keep you close to my heart..!!
When you're close it feels so good, I would like to stay like this forever, If there was a way I definitely would, I wish we always stay together, When I wake up I want you to be there, and I just want to stay close to you, I know you will always love and care, I love you now and I'll always do..!
True Love Is When...
Everything in the world is going wrong...
And By Looking To That Special Person...
Everything In The World Is Right Again...???
Have you ever had a moment when you’re with the one person in the world you want to be with and the wind is blowing through your hair and the song that just describes your entire soul happens to come on and then the person you happen to want to be with happens to love the same song and suddenly you realize you’re listening to it together and no matter how crazy your life has gotten, there’s this one moment, this perfect moment where you could just say that no matter what happens nothing can take this moment away from me…
63 Ways to Make Her Feel Special
1. Regularly express to her that you need and value her.
2. Do things that make you laugh together.
3. Compliment her for her special qualities and be specific.
4. Put your arms around her when she needs comfort.
5. Speak respectfully, don’t demean her or hurt her feelings.
6. Give her time to be with her friends.
7. Take regular walks hand-in-hand.
8. Be enthusiastic over things that she’s excited about.
9. Do something you think she wants done before she asks.
10. Discuss changes with her first before you make them.
11. Show interest in the relationship and the things she values.
12. Allow her to teach you things without being defensive.
13. Let go of the small stuff.
14. Be a good listener and value what she says.
15. Get away from the routine to spend time together.
16. Go shopping with her without watching the clock.
17. Make her breakfast and clean up afterward.
18. Set specific relationship goals to achieve together.
19. Act like you are partners in all areas life.
20. Don’t take her for granted, always be polite.
21. Admit your mistakes, and ask for forgiveness.
22. Defend her to others, especially to your family.
23. Don’t belittle her intelligence.
24. Scratch her back, rub her feet, and massage her neck.
25. Be especially helpful when she is not feeling well.
26. When she asks how your day went, give her details.
27. Never argue over money, it will damage your relationship.
28. Don’t embarrass her in front of others.
29. Make eye contact when the two of you are talking.
30. Show that you prefer her company over all others.
31. Give her your full attention whenever possible.
32. When she expresses her feelings listen with your heart.
33. Never flirt with another woman.
34. Brag about her and your relationship to others.
35. Surprise her with a card and flowers.
36. Call her when you know you are going to be late.
37. Give her your undivided attention when she’s talking.
38. Never compare her unfavorably with others.
39. Take care of yourself, It shows you care.
40. Be supportive. Help her to achieve her goals.
41. Run errands without complaining.
42. Sit close to her, even when you’re just watching TV.
43. Include her when you make plans.
44. Do things that make her feel cherished as a woman.
45. Build trust into your relationship.
46. Surprise her with a 15+ second kiss.
47. Stay in good of shape so she’s proud to be with you.
48. Be kinder to her than you are to strangers.
49. Make sure she feels valued above everyone else.
50. Continue to court her and date her.
51. Show affection for her in front of friends.
52. Hold her close when she is hurt or discouraged.
53. Surprise her with an unexpected gift.
54. Don’t forget to hold her hand in public.
55. Honor her and support her dignity.
56. Don’t dishonor her by eyeballing other women.
57. Fix dinner for her sometimes.
58. Be sympathetic when she’s feeling down.
59. Don’t ignore the small things that bother her.
60. Do things around the house that she wants done.
61. Tell her and show her that you love her every day.
62. When you’re away call or email often.
63. Show her affection without sexual intentions.
Little Ways A Man Can Keep His Partner's Love Tank Full
1. Upon returning home, find her first before doing anything else and give her a hug.
2. Ask her specific questions about her day that indicate an awareness of what she was planning to do.
(e.g., "How did your day go? Did you have fun at the mall?")
3. Pratice listening and asking questions.
4. Resist the temptations to solve her problems.
5. Give her twenty minutes of unsolicited, quality attention (don't read the newspaper or be distracted by anything else during this time).
6. Bring her cut flowers as a surprise as well as on special occasions.
7. Plan a date several days in advance, rather than waiting for Friday night and asking her what she wants to do.
8. If she generally makes dinner or if it is her turn and she seems tired or really busy, offer to make dinner.
9. Compliment her on how she looks.
10. Validate her feelings when she is upset.
11. Offer to help her when she is tired.
12. Schedule extra time when traveling so that she doesn't have to rush.
13. When you are going to be late, call her and let her know.
14. When she asks for support, say yes or no without making her wrong for asking.
15. Whenever her feelings have been hurt, give her some empathy and tell her "I'm sorry you feel hurt." Then be silent; let her feel your understanding of her hurt. Don't offer solutions or explanations why her hurt is not your fault.
16. Whenever you need to pull away, let her know you will be back or that you need some time to think about things.
17. When you've cooled off and you come back, talk about what was bothering you in a respectful, nonblaming way, so she doesn't imagine the worst.
18. Offer to build a fire in wintertime.
19. When she talks to you, put down the magazine or turn off the TV and give her your full attention.
20. If she usually washes the dishes, occasionally offer to wash the dishes, especially if she is tired that day.
21. Notice when she is upset or tired and ask what she has to do. Then offer to help by doing a few of her "to do" items.
22. When going out, ask if there is anything she wants you to pick up at the store, and remember to pick it up.
23. Let her know when you are planning to take a nap or leave.
24. Give her four hugs a day.
25. Call her from work to ask how she is or to share somehing exciting or to tell her "I love you."
26. Tell her "I love you" at least a couple of times every day.
27. Make the bed and clean up the bedroom.
28. If she washes your socks, turn your socks right side out so she doesn't have to.
29. Notice when the trash is full, and offer to empty it.
30. When you are out of town, call to leave a telephone number when you can be reached an to let her know you arrived safely.
31. Wash her car.
32. Wash your car and clean up the interior before a date with her.
33. Wash before having sex or put on a cologne if she likes that.
34. Take her side when she is upset with someone.
35. Offer to give her a back or neck or foot massage (or all three).
36. Make a point of cuddling or being affectionate soemtimes without being sexual.
37. Be patient whe she is sharing. Don't look at your watch.
38. Don't flick the remote control to different chanels when she is watching TV with you.
39. Display affection in public.
40. When holding hands don't let your hand go limp.
41. Learn her favorite drinks so you can offer her a choice of the ones that you know she already likes.
42. Suggest different restaurants for going out; don't put the burden of figuring out where to go on her.
43. Get season tickets for the theater, symphony, opera, ballet, or some other type of some other type of performance she likes.
44. Create occasions when you both can dress up.
45. Be understanding when she is late or decides to change her outfit.
46. Pay more attention to her than to others in public.
47. Make her more important than the children. Let the children see her first and foremost.
48. Buy her little presents- like a small box of chocolates or perfume.
49. Buy her an outfit (take a picture of your partner along with her sizes to the store and let them help you select it).
50. Take pictures of her on special occasions.
51. Take short romantic getaways.
52. Let her see that you carry a picture of her in your wallet and update it for time to time.
53. When staying in a hotel, have them prepare the room with something special, like a bottle of champagne or sparkling apple juice or flowers.
54. Write a note or make a sign on special occasions such as anniversairies and birthdays.
55. Offer to drive the car on long trips.
56. Drive slowly and safety, respecting her preferences. After all, she is sitting powerless in the front seat.
57. Notice how she is feeling and comment on it- "You look happy today" or "You look tired"- and then ask a question like "How was your day?"
58. When taking her out, study in advance the directions so that she does not have to feel reponsible to navigate.
59. Take her dancing or take dancing lessons together.
60. Surprise her with a love note or poem.
61. Treat her in ways you did at the begging of the relationship.
62. Offer to fix something around the house. Say "What needs to fixed around here? I have some extra time." Don't take on more than you can do.
63. Offer to sharpen her knives in the kitchen.
64. Buy some good SuperGlue to fix things that are broken.
65. Offer to change light bulbs as soon as they go out.
66. Help with recycling the trash.
67. Read out loud or cut out sections of the newspaper that would interest her.
68. Write out neatly any phone messages you make take for her.
69. Keep the bathroom floor clean and dry it after taking a shower.
70. Open the door for her.
71. Offer to carry the groceries.
72. Offer to carry heavy boxes for her.
73. On trips, handle the luggage and be responsible for packing it in the car.
74. If she washes the dishes or it is her turn, offer to help scrub pots or other difficult tasks.
75. Make a "to fix" list and leave it in the kitchen. When you have extra time do something on that list for her. Don't let it get out too long.
76. When she prepare a meal, compliment her cooking.
77. When listening to her talk, use eye contact.
78. Touch her with your hand sometimes when you talk to her.
79. Show interest in what she does during the day, in the books she reads and the people she relates to.
80. When listening to her, reassure her that you are interested by making little noises like as ha, uh-huh, oh, mmhuh, hmmmm.
81. Ask her how she is feeling.
82. If she has been sick in some way, ask for an update and ask how she is doing or feeling.
83. If she is tired offer to make her some tea.
84. Get ready to go to sleep together and get in bed at the same time.
85. Give her a kiss and say ggod-bye when you leave.
86. Laugh at her jokes and humor.
87. Verbally say thank you when she does things for you.
88. Notice when she gets her hair done and give her a reassuring compliment.
89. Create special time to be alone to gether.
90. Don't answer the phone at intimate moments or if she is sharing vulnerable feelings.
91. Go bicycling to gether, even if it's just a short ride.
92. Organize and prepare a picnic. (Remember to bring to picnic cloth.)
93. If she handles the laundry, bring the clothes to the cleaners or offer to do the wash.
94. Take her for a walk without the children.
95. Negotiate in a maner that shows her that you want her to get what she wants and you also want what you want. Be caring, but don't be a martyr.
96. Let her know that you missed her when you went away.
97. Bring home her favorite pie or dessert.
98. If she normally shop for the food, offer to do the food shopping.
99. Eat lightly on romantic occasions so that you don't become stuffed and tired later.
100. Ask her to add her thoughts to this list.
101. Leave the bathroom seat down.
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