28 Feb 2014

Don't be disappointed if people refuse to help you. Remember the words of Einstein:

I am thankful to all those who said no. Because of them I did it myself.

Close some doors not because of pride, incapactiy or arrogance, but simply because they no longer lead somewhere.

Fake People have an image to maintain. Real people just don't care.


My strength did not come from lifting weights. My strength came from lifting myself up when I was knocked down.

Believing that you are the best might look like over confidence….some times it works & having that blind faith will help you move a step forward….

People go through their whole lives chasing everything in the material world, and they fail to discover the greatest treasure of all, which is within them. Shut your eyes to the outside world. Direct your thoughts and words to the inside of you. The Master within you is the key to all the treasures in the world.
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To My Wife....

100 ways to love you:

1. Communicate with her; never close her out.
2. Regard her as important.
3. Do everything you can to understand her feelings.
4. Be interested in her friends.
5. Ask her opinion frequently.
6. Value what she says.
7. Let her feel your approval and affection.
8. Protect her on a daily basis.
9. Be gentle and tender with her.
10. Develop a sense of humor.
11. Avoid sudden major changes without discussion and without giving her time to adjust.
12. Learn to respond openly and verbally when she wants to communicate.
13. Comfort her when she’s down emotionally. Put your arms around her & hold her.
14. Be interested in what she feels is important in life.
15. Correct her gently and tenderly.
16. Allow her to teach you without putting up your defenses.
17. Make special time available to her and your children.
18. Be trustworthy.
19. Compliment her often.
20. Be creative when you express your love, either in words or actions.
21. Have specific family goals for each year.
22. Let her buy things she considers necessary.
23. Be forgiving when she offends you.
24. Show her you need her.
25. Accept her the way she is; discover her uniqueness as special.
26. Admit your mistakes; don’t be afraid to be humble.
27. Defend her to others.
28. Allow your wife to fail; discuss what went wrong after you’ve comforted her.
29. Rub her feet or neck after a hard day.
31. Go on romantic outings.
32. Write her a letter occasionally, telling her how much you love her.
33. Surprise her with a card or flowers.
34. Express how proud you are of her.
35. Tell her how much you appreciate her.
36. Give advice in a loving way when she asks for it.
37. Lead your family in their spiritual relationship with God.
38. Prefer her to others.
39. Don’t expect her to enjoy god’s best in life.
40. Pray for her to enjoy God’s best in life.
41. Take time to notice what she has done for you and the family.
42. Brag about her to other people behind her back.
43. Share your thoughts and feelings with her.
44. Tell her about your job, if she’s interested.
45. Take time to see how she spends her day, at work or at home.
46. Take care of the kids before dinner.
47. Learn to enjoy what she enjoys.
48. Help straighten up the house before mealtime.
49. Let her take a bubble bath while you do the dishes.
50. Understand her physical limitations if you have several children.
51. Discipline the children in love, not anger.
52. Help her finish her goals, hobbies or education.
53. Treat her as if God had stamped on her forehead, “Handle with Care”.
54. Get rid of habits that annoy her.
55. Be gentle and thoughtful to her relatives.
56. Don’t compare her relatives with yours in a negative way.
57. Thank her for things she has done without expecting anything in return.
58. Don’t expect a band to play whenever you help with the housecleaning.
59. Make sure she understands everything you’re planning to do.
60. Do little things for her—an unexpected kiss, coffee in bed.
61. Treat her as an intellectual equal.
62. Find out if she wants to be treated as physically weaker.
63. Discover her fears in life.
64. See what you can do to eliminate those fears.
65. Discover her sexual needs.
66. Ask if she wants to discuss how you can meet her sexual needs.
67. Find out what makes her insecure.
68. Plan your future together.
69. Don’t quarrel over words, but try to find hidden meanings.
70. Practice common courtesies like holding the door for her, pouring her coffee.
71. Ask her if you offend her sexually in any way.
72. Ask if she’s jealous of anyone.
73. See if she’s uncomfortable about the way money is spent.
74. Take her on dates now and then.
75. Hold her hand in public.
76. Put your arm around her in front of friends.
77. Tell her you love her often.
78. Remember anniversaries, birthdays, and other special occasions.
79. Learn to enjoy shopping.
80. Teach her to hunt and fish or whatever you enjoy doing.
81. Give her a special gift from time to time.
82. Share the responsibilities around the house.
83. Don’t belittle her feminine characteristics.
84. Let her express herself freely, without fear of being called stupid or illogical.
85. Carefully choose your words, especially when angry.
86. Don’t criticize her in front of other.
87. Don’t let her see you become excited about the physical features of another woman.
88. Be sensitive to other people.
89. Let your family know you want to spend special time with them.
90. Fix dinner for her from time to time.
91. Be sympathetic when she’s sick.
92. Call her when you’re going to be late.
93. Don’t disagree with her in front of the children.
94. Take her out to dinner and for weekend getaways.
95. Do the “little things” she needs from time to time.
96. Give her special time alone with her friends.
97. Buy her what she considers an intimate gift.
98. Read a book she recommends to you.
99. Give her engraved plaque assuring her of your lasting love.
100. Write her a poem about how special she is.

♥ You fill up my senses...
Like a night in a forest... ♥

I belong with you 
You belong with me,
You're my baby...

You are a beautiful soul.. Amazing in your own way..
It may be your eyes, your smile, your laugh, your inner glow...
Everyone one of us has a quality that someone else admires....
" You Are Special My baby.."

The power of a gun can kill
and the power of Fire can Burn
The power of wind can chill
and the power of the mind can learn
The power of anger can rage
inside until it tears you apart
But the Power of a Smile
especially yours can heal a frozen Heart...

How can i arrange my words to say....
How special U are to me...
U are the themes of my life...
U are the beloved prince....
U are my love
U are in my memories
U are in my all acceptance.
Every single beat of my heart is just for U
Every breath i inhales, it's just for U....
All this is because I LOVE U MY baby!!

YoU mAy Be s0mEtHiNg LiTtLe In ThIs BiG w0rLd
BuT y0u aRe My EvErYtHiNg In My LiTtLE w0rLd...♥

The Time when I am going to spend With You...
Is The Most Beautiful Time Of My Life... ♥

I'll be your platinum, I'll be your silver, I'll be your gold
As long as you love, love, love, love me
As long as you love, love, love, love me
As long as you love, love, love, love me...

My dreams are close my heart so told ur the one I need you… My Life is here and my mind is there thinking of you being close and holding you… Things change, dreams change but the one who is strong will never fail! - P.S I LOVE YOU!!

One look
One smile
One touch
One embrace
One kiss
One love
Two people
Two minds
Two souls
Two destinies
One road
One journey
One ending
Together.

Love is the condition in which the happiness of another person is essential to your own.

It's not the song that makes you emotional. It's the person that comes to your mind when you hear it . . . I wanna HUG♥....

I would never let your smile go away,
I'll always be with you on every way,
No matter how hard it is to stand,
I'll keep you happy and hold your hand,
There is nothing that can make us apart,
coz I'll always keep you close to my heart..!! 

When you're close it feels so good, I would like to stay like this forever, If there was a way I definitely would, I wish we always stay together, When I wake up I want you to be there, and I just want to stay close to you, I know you will always love and care, I love you now and I'll always do..!


True Love Is When...
Everything in the world is going wrong...
And By Looking To That Special Person...

Everything In The World Is Right Again...???

Have you ever had a moment when you’re with the one person in the world you want to be with and the wind is blowing through your hair and the song that just describes your entire soul happens to come on and then the person you happen to want to be with happens to love the same song and suddenly you realize you’re listening to it together and no matter how crazy your life has gotten, there’s this one moment, this perfect moment where you could just say that no matter what happens nothing can take this moment away from me…

63 Ways to Make Her Feel Special

1. Regularly express to her that you need and value her.
2. Do things that make you laugh together.
3. Compliment her for her special qualities and be specific.
4. Put your arms around her when she needs comfort.
5. Speak respectfully, don’t demean her or hurt her feelings.
6. Give her time to be with her friends.
7. Take regular walks hand-in-hand.
8. Be enthusiastic over things that she’s excited about.
9. Do something you think she wants done before she asks.
10. Discuss changes with her first before you make them.
11. Show interest in the relationship and the things she values.
12. Allow her to teach you things without being defensive.
13. Let go of the small stuff.
14. Be a good listener and value what she says.
15. Get away from the routine to spend time together.
16. Go shopping with her without watching the clock.
17. Make her breakfast and clean up afterward.
18. Set specific relationship goals to achieve together.
19. Act like you are partners in all areas life.
20. Don’t take her for granted, always be polite. 
21. Admit your mistakes, and ask for forgiveness.
22. Defend her to others, especially to your family.
23. Don’t belittle her intelligence.
24. Scratch her back, rub her feet, and massage her neck.
25. Be especially helpful when she is not feeling well.
26. When she asks how your day went, give her details.
27. Never argue over money, it will damage your relationship.
28. Don’t embarrass her in front of others.
29. Make eye contact when the two of you are talking.
30. Show that you prefer her company over all others.
31. Give her your full attention whenever possible.
32. When she expresses her feelings listen with your heart.
33. Never flirt with another woman.
34. Brag about her and your relationship to others.
35. Surprise her with a card and flowers.
36. Call her when you know you are going to be late.
37. Give her your undivided attention when she’s talking.
38. Never compare her unfavorably with others.
39. Take care of yourself, It shows you care.
40. Be supportive. Help her to achieve her goals.
41. Run errands without complaining.
42. Sit close to her, even when you’re just watching TV.
43. Include her when you make plans.
44. Do things that make her feel cherished as a woman.
45. Build trust into your relationship.
46. Surprise her with a 15+ second kiss.
47. Stay in good of shape so she’s proud to be with you.
48. Be kinder to her than you are to strangers.
49. Make sure she feels valued above everyone else.
50. Continue to court her and date her.
51. Show affection for her in front of friends.
52. Hold her close when she is hurt or discouraged.
53. Surprise her with an unexpected gift.
54. Don’t forget to hold her hand in public.
55. Honor her and support her dignity.
56. Don’t dishonor her by eyeballing other women.
57. Fix dinner for her sometimes.
58. Be sympathetic when she’s feeling down.
59. Don’t ignore the small things that bother her.
60. Do things around the house that she wants done.
61. Tell her and show her that you love her every day.
62. When you’re away call or email often.
63. Show her affection without sexual intentions.

Little Ways A Man Can Keep His Partner's Love Tank Full

1. Upon returning home, find her first before doing anything else and give her a hug.

2. Ask her specific questions about her day that indicate an awareness of what she was planning to do.
(e.g., "How did your day go? Did you have fun at the mall?")

3. Pratice listening and asking questions.

4. Resist the temptations to solve her problems.

5. Give her twenty minutes of unsolicited, quality attention (don't read the newspaper or be distracted by anything else during this time).

6. Bring her cut flowers as a surprise as well as on special occasions.

7. Plan a date several days in advance, rather than waiting for Friday night and asking her what she wants to do.

8. If she generally makes dinner or if it is her turn and she seems tired or really busy, offer to make dinner.

9. Compliment her on how she looks.

10. Validate her feelings when she is upset.

11. Offer to help her when she is tired.

12. Schedule extra time when traveling so that she doesn't have to rush.

13. When you are going to be late, call her and let her know.

14. When she asks for support, say yes or no without making her wrong for asking.

15. Whenever her feelings have been hurt, give her some empathy and tell her "I'm sorry you feel hurt." Then be silent; let her feel your understanding of her hurt. Don't offer solutions or explanations why her hurt is not your fault.

16. Whenever you need to pull away, let her know you will be back or that you need some time to think about things.

17. When you've cooled off and you come back, talk about what was bothering you in a respectful, nonblaming way, so she doesn't imagine the worst.

18. Offer to build a fire in wintertime.

19. When she talks to you, put down the magazine or turn off the TV and give her your full attention.

20. If she usually washes the dishes, occasionally offer to wash the dishes, especially if she is tired that day.

21. Notice when she is upset or tired and ask what she has to do. Then offer to help by doing a few of her "to do" items.

22. When going out, ask if there is anything she wants you to pick up at the store, and remember to pick it up.

23. Let her know when you are planning to take a nap or leave.

24. Give her four hugs a day.

25. Call her from work to ask how she is or to share somehing exciting or to tell her "I love you."

26. Tell her "I love you" at least a couple of times every day.

27. Make the bed and clean up the bedroom.

28. If she washes your socks, turn your socks right side out so she doesn't have to.

29. Notice when the trash is full, and offer to empty it.

30. When you are out of town, call to leave a telephone number when you can be reached an to let her know you arrived safely.

31. Wash her car.

32. Wash your car and clean up the interior before a date with her.

33. Wash before having sex or put on a cologne if she likes that.

34. Take her side when she is upset with someone.

35. Offer to give her a back or neck or foot massage (or all three).

36. Make a point of cuddling or being affectionate soemtimes without being sexual.

37. Be patient whe she is sharing. Don't look at your watch.

38. Don't flick the remote control to different chanels when she is watching TV with you.

39. Display affection in public.

40. When holding hands don't let your hand go limp.

41. Learn her favorite drinks so you can offer her a choice of the ones that you know she already likes.

42. Suggest different restaurants for going out; don't put the burden of figuring out where to go on her.

43. Get season tickets for the theater, symphony, opera, ballet, or some other type of some other type of performance she likes.

44. Create occasions when you both can dress up.

45. Be understanding when she is late or decides to change her outfit.

46. Pay more attention to her than to others in public.

47. Make her more important than the children. Let the children see her first and foremost.

48. Buy her little presents- like a small box of chocolates or perfume.

49. Buy her an outfit (take a picture of your partner along with her sizes to the store and let them help you select it).

50. Take pictures of her on special occasions.

51. Take short romantic getaways.

52. Let her see that you carry a picture of her in your wallet and update it for time to time.

53. When staying in a hotel, have them prepare the room with something special, like a bottle of champagne or sparkling apple juice or flowers.

54. Write a note or make a sign on special occasions such as anniversairies and birthdays.

55. Offer to drive the car on long trips.

56. Drive slowly and safety, respecting her preferences. After all, she is sitting powerless in the front seat.

57. Notice how she is feeling and comment on it- "You look happy today" or "You look tired"- and then ask a question like "How was your day?"

58. When taking her out, study in advance the directions so that she does not have to feel reponsible to navigate.

59. Take her dancing or take dancing lessons together.

60. Surprise her with a love note or poem.

61. Treat her in ways you did at the begging of the relationship.

62. Offer to fix something around the house. Say "What needs to fixed around here? I have some extra time." Don't take on more than you can do.

63. Offer to sharpen her knives in the kitchen.

64. Buy some good SuperGlue to fix things that are broken.

65. Offer to change light bulbs as soon as they go out.

66. Help with recycling the trash.

67. Read out loud or cut out sections of the newspaper that would interest her.

68. Write out neatly any phone messages you make take for her.

69. Keep the bathroom floor clean and dry it after taking a shower.

70. Open the door for her.

71. Offer to carry the groceries.

72. Offer to carry heavy boxes for her.

73. On trips, handle the luggage and be responsible for packing it in the car.

74. If she washes the dishes or it is her turn, offer to help scrub pots or other difficult tasks.

75. Make a "to fix" list and leave it in the kitchen. When you have extra time do something on that list for her. Don't let it get out too long.

76. When she prepare a meal, compliment her cooking.

77. When listening to her talk, use eye contact.

78. Touch her with your hand sometimes when you talk to her.

79. Show interest in what she does during the day, in the books she reads and the people she relates to.

80. When listening to her, reassure her that you are interested by making little noises like as ha, uh-huh, oh, mmhuh, hmmmm.

81. Ask her how she is feeling.

82. If she has been sick in some way, ask for an update and ask how she is doing or feeling.

83. If she is tired offer to make her some tea.

84. Get ready to go to sleep together and get in bed at the same time.

85. Give her a kiss and say ggod-bye when you leave.

86. Laugh at her jokes and humor.

87. Verbally say thank you when she does things for you.

88. Notice when she gets her hair done and give her a reassuring compliment.
89. Create special time to be alone to gether.

90. Don't answer the phone at intimate moments or if she is sharing vulnerable feelings.

91. Go bicycling to gether, even if it's just a short ride.

92. Organize and prepare a picnic. (Remember to bring to picnic cloth.)

93. If she handles the laundry, bring the clothes to the cleaners or offer to do the wash.

94. Take her for a walk without the children.

95. Negotiate in a maner that shows her that you want her to get what she wants and you also want what you want. Be caring, but don't be a martyr.

96. Let her know that you missed her when you went away.

97. Bring home her favorite pie or dessert.

98. If she normally shop for the food, offer to do the food shopping.

99. Eat lightly on romantic occasions so that you don't become stuffed and tired later.

100. Ask her to add her thoughts to this list.

101. Leave the bathroom seat down.

Life, like anything else, listens to the rules of the universe. As the common theory in chemistry goes the sum of what goes in, has to add up to what comes out. Life is no different. What you put in, is what you get - and that's well said by the popular adage, "You reap what you sow". It goes for the good. It goes for the bad. Most importantly, it goes for the things you are indifferent to.

If all of this is true, then the idiocracy in life is believing that doing the same thing everyone is doing will yield different results. If you are sitting in for entrances like everyone else, getting into engineering like everyone else, taking up job offers that you hate like everyone else, and buying houses and getting into debt like everyone else, you can't expect some miracle to happen that makes you different from anyone - can you, now?

Insanity: doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results, says Einstein.

If you want to be different, then the answer is simple. Step out, do things others aren't doing. Look at things others aren't looking at. Read, absorb and create things that others dare not. Being different starts with the choices you make - some are unfortunately made for us, but the few choices that are upto you, don't walk down the dotted, padded lines like sheep, and then expect to bark like a Border Collie.

The Entropy of life, is that, You don't get something unless you really really really want it, and are willing to commit to getting that. How badly do you want to be different? If that is a strong Yes, then the only question you need to ask is if you are true to yourself. You do not want to make choices to your life to be a cheap imitation of someone else. There is no fun, glory or worth in that path. So for once, listen to your heart and decide - don't follow. And be willing to pay the price it comes with.

Source: Vijay. I saw in the net and its inspired me... so I shared here...

From now on I'm going to live my life with no fear of anything. I'm not scared of anyone I'm fearless. The only fear I will have is facing God Almighty. Everything happen for a reason and I have a reason to live fearless.

Where are you my love???

Rules for a Happy Marriage!

To my friend..

flipkart + facebook -> N/W

Go further to get closer..

To achieve more than you've ever dreamed of achieving. First become more than ever you've ever dreamed of becoming.

To become greater, become humbler.

To have a life very few have, do the things very few will do

The marketplace always rewards mastery

To become a 20XBetter Person, Set and Execute

Impact is more lucrative than income

Every expert was once an amateur and every master was once a beginner. So just start.

The beautiful thing about fear is, when you run to it, it runs away.

Lesson for today:

Work Hard for your next generation & raise your standard wherever you are.

God's Grace - Say Hari Hari Govinda

Today I went to Thirupathi and saw my god by his grace. I never saw the god so soon like this before. Thanks to the travels (Balaji Travels) and my sister who took me. 

I gotta a chance to spoke with the driver (Pugzhal) due to I seated with him in the front. He shared the wonderful experiences with us, about the great lord venkatesha.. 

He is driving the car on a daily basis to Thirupathi seva for more than 6 Years to help like the people us who are waiting to get the seva of God.

His experiences: 

1. Everybody want to see the god and they have plans too (even they fixed the dates and everything) but they are unable to see the god based on their plans. Due to God needs to give an order like come and see me. 

2. Just be true to the god with clear devotion.

I highly recommend this Balaji travels to anybody who are preferring to go Thirupathi seva due to the below reasons:

1. Clear Plans 
2. Perfect Driving and On time
3. Hotels (Breakfast and Lunch is Good)
4. Good Darshinam - Its purely depends on God's grace, but they will help you to get.

Say Hari Hari Govinda...
Sri Hari Hari Govinda...

Listen this wonderful Hari Hari Govinda track here -> http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=74BEFgae_gI

Still 10 Days to go.... Mixed Emotions..

In the lunch, Today One of my friend said he don't like the food from home and he is having some complaints.. I said before you complain about the taste of your food, Think of someone who has nothing to eat.

Don't judge the book by it's cover. ... never judge the person by their status message! 

Its 100% true. 

Just Write Something...

Writing clarifies your thinking. Thoughts and feelings are nebulous happenings in our mind holes, but writing forces us to crystalize those thoughts and put them in a logical order. 

Writing helps you reflect on your life and changes you’re making. This is incredibly valuable, as often we do things without realizing why, or what effects these things are having on us.

Just Write Something -> I got this advice from my brother one day he told me like write down the things based on your thoughts before sleeping. So that you will get the clear idea not in the next morning but soon you will.

I tried for some days but now I feel ashamed, i never continue that writing habit regularly. I hope I will write regularly for the next 1 month. Lets see how its working.

பெண்தான் சக்தி... தாய்!

True..
ஆண் பிள்ளை இல்லியேனு யோசிச்சதே இல்லை. ரெண்டும் பெண் குழந்தைகள்னு சந்தோஷப்பட்ட நேரங்களே அதிகம். ஐஸ்வர்யா -  சௌந்தர்யானு நான் ரெண்டு பெண்களுக்குத் தகப்பன். காலையில் எந்திரிச்சு வரும்போது, வீட்டில் ரெண்டு மகள்களும் கலகலனு நடமாடுறதைப் பார்த்தாலே ஒரு தனி சந்தோஷம் வரும். ஆமா, ஒரே ஒரு பொண்ணு இருந்தாக்கூட போதும்... அந்த வீட்டுக்கே உயிர் வந்துடும். ஏன்னா.. பெண்தான் சக்தி... தாய்!

ஒரு வீட்ல ஆம்பள கெட்டுப் போயிட்டால், அந்தக் குடும்பத்தை பொண்ணு எப்படியாவது பொழைக்க வெச்சிடுவா. ஆனா, ஒரு பொண்ணு கெட்டுப் போயிட்டா, அந்தக் குடும்பமே அழிஞ்சுபோயிடும்னு சொல்வாங்க! தட்ஸ் வெரி ட்ரூ! பெண் அப்படியொரு மகா சக்தி!' -> RajiniKanth

Its True... 

I love the below pic a lot for 2 reasons.
 1. Her guts & confidence in her eyes.
 2. Her face resembles same like my Teju....

"கோழை ஓடி விடுகிறான்; ஆனால், ஒரு தைரியசாலியின் முடிவு ஆபத்தாகிறது." -யுரிபிடிஸ் (Euripides)

சில நேரங்கள்-ல பொய்யான ஒரு விஷயம் நமக்கு உண்மை மாதிரி தெரியும்; ஆனா அது நம்மை விட்டு போகும்போது அதிகமா துன்பப்படுவோம். பல நேரங்கள்-ல உண்மையான ஒரு விஷயத்தை பொய்-னு ரொம்ப தீர்க்கமா நம்புவோம்; ஆனா அது தான் உண்மை-னு தெரியவரும்போது அது நம்மள விட்டு ரொம்ப தூரம் போயிருக்கும்."

Those who say "I'll be there for you always" are the ones who will be missing when you need them.

its really hectic if you got cough and headahe..  Now I feel better.. Back to my blog.. Hopefully I will start blogging from tomorrow..